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I was trying to get DD to sleep last night and after an hour of battling with her, I found myself thinking about being still pregnant (39 weeks on Thursday--not really that long) and getting ready to deliver again. Aack! I was feeling very weary when what I think of as my life metaphor occurred to me again. I thought I would share since it seems so appropriate for a lot of the concerns and questions it seems we are having lately.

Whenever things get tough for me, especially with mothering and pregnancy, I think about pioneer women and how they did it. They crossed the prairie pregnant, in dresses--and bloomers of all things, in the heat!--and covered wagons and killed their own dinners and farmed their own food and had babies, sometimes completely alone or IN the covered wagon crossing the prairie, and, and, and. And when I have questions about the right thing to do, sometimes I just think "What would I do if I was a pioneer woman?"

So, if they could do it then, I can do this too, with my birthing tub and my air conditioning and my Pandora play list and my chiropractic appointments, etc. Thank goodness I don't have to do it bloomers, but I like to draw on the strength of all of those women who have done this before me under much harder conditions.
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I agree that there are women all over the world who have had it and still have it far worse than me. Unfortunately my husband occasionally reminds me of this...
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i often think this too, but i have to disagree that bloomers are a bad item of clothing. they are really wonderful! i wear nothing but full length dresses because they are functional for my lifestyle (farm, milking a cow, gardening, being hugely pregnant) and bloomers underneath keep the bees out! that is a real benefit- we have 4 beehives.

that sillyness aside, sometimes the thought of all the millions of women who have 'done it' before me and in much less desirable conditions is the only thing that gets me through the day. not to mention the hundreds of thousands of women all over the world who are living that way right now!
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Well, I like to think that I am the only one to have ever gone through so much, and no one understands me or feels what I have felt. That way when I complain, I feel I have the right to complain!

But really, it is good in a sort of bad way that women all over the world from the begining of creation have had to do this. Makes me seem a bit unspecial, but gives me the power to endure what ever comes my way, knowing that many before have had it worse.
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they are functional for my lifestyle (farm, milking a cow, gardening, being hugely pregnant)>>>>

Tabitha,

So, I'm not the only milker, eh? We milk goats, though. Are you still doing the barn chores like normal? I have been, although today after a night of crampy CX and diarrhea this morning I made the two older boys go alone. I see your kids aren't old enough for that, though.

What did those pioneer women do right after babies were born? I haven't thought of a plan for the barn yet except for take baby with and keep him/her in the stroller next to me. Hard to milk wearing a sling, I'm sure!

Thinking of pinoneer women helps me, too. I've started to feel a bit sorry for myself when I have to drag my big ole' bellied self to the barn lately.......at least I have a cool house to come back to.

Dee
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we have jersey cows, and i am the only one that milks. dh does all the other chores though, except the garden maintenance and the canning/ food preservation. i dont know what i will do after the baby. but i know it will involve milking at least one and probably two (we have one due any minute) cows twice a day before, during and after labor.

milking with a pocket sling is not easy, but using a back carrier like an eden carrier or other meitai is easy. also having a moses basket next to you to set a sleepy one in can be good. i had trouble with the pocket sling as i lean forward, the baby would hang right there in kick-danger.

i am doing a little less recently, because i am so big, but the show must go on.
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