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Originally Posted by mammal_mama 
My 3yo still uses her infant carseat, which came with a booster-seat option, so we're basically depending on the adult seatbelt (not the carseat) to protect her. By the time she was about 2, we'd loosened the carseat straps as loose as they could go, and they'd become too tight, [I]so we moved the carseat straps to the sides of her body so she didn't have to lean back[/I] on them, and started threading the adult shoulder-belt through the carseat-hole above her left shoulder, and just buckled her in like we do our 8yo (well, 8yo does it herself now).
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With the Infant to toddler to booster you also need to take the harness out of the seat when using it as a booseter. If you look at the back of the seat there is a "y" shaped clip to undo the harness. Unthread that if you choose to use it as a booster instead of the harness.
As for car seats I have had
Graco bucket seat( loaned to me)
Cosco Scenra ($40 at walmart)
Safety 1st All in one Deluxe ( bought brand new off of Craigslist, still in box with original tape $70.00 So I could keep her rear facing, she had outgrown the height on the cosco seat.)
Soon to buy a Graco Natilus, I want to keep daughter in harness until she is at least 4 years old.
So all together I will have spent around $240 on carseats. Money WELL spent in any estimation. I would rather have my daughter cry EVERY SINGLE time she gets in the car ( she loved rear facing btw) instead of having a dead or severely injured child any day.
I can understand wanting to save money. Money is VERY TIGHT for me. I live off of $600 a month. However, carseat safety is not really a place to be stingy and buy seat that are not made for your child.
For what its worth the Scenra says not to turn forward facing until the child is 34 inches tall. My daughter is barely that now. However her torso height is such that I had to get a taller shell. I dont think there are many 20 pound , 34 inch 1 year olds out there.
Do a little research from several different sources. If you are alright with what you are doing, then do it. However it sounds like you have concerns. So follow your gut and figure out what you can do to make you feel better. If you think you need to keep your daughter in a booster, no amount of pleading on here will change your mind....but do look into the issue further. Not only on here but on car-seat.org and the manufacturers website. Dont give up until you find good reliable info that sets your heart and mind at ease.
I would look into the graco natilus. It is relatively cheap. It harness up to 65 pounds (I think) and it is safer for your daughter.
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