Hi All,
Anyone else having a second or subsequent baby who refuses to engage? I'm a little confused... I thought it was common for sub babies to not drop until labor, but my mw seems concerned. I'm 38wks, and he's LOT, but way high up. My mw has me doing stairs and lunges and squats to try to get him to engage. She hasn't said anything, but I can tell from her non-verbals that she is worried that he won't fit. It does feel like there is a huge overlap of the head over the pubic bone. She was asking me what the circumference of my first baby's head was, which of course I can't remember. But my first's birth ended as a very traumatic hb transfer (not that anything really dangerous happened, it was just traumatic for me bc I so badly wanted a hb). He was asynclitic/posterior, hours and hours of no break (literally, none) back labor cntrx, and narrowly escaped a vaccuum delivery. So I guess we're all worried about a repeat of that happening. Please reassure me that your babies are still floating too! Thanks!
-Kris, DS1 8/27/05, DS2 On the way, EDD 7/22/08
Anyone else having a second or subsequent baby who refuses to engage? I'm a little confused... I thought it was common for sub babies to not drop until labor, but my mw seems concerned. I'm 38wks, and he's LOT, but way high up. My mw has me doing stairs and lunges and squats to try to get him to engage. She hasn't said anything, but I can tell from her non-verbals that she is worried that he won't fit. It does feel like there is a huge overlap of the head over the pubic bone. She was asking me what the circumference of my first baby's head was, which of course I can't remember. But my first's birth ended as a very traumatic hb transfer (not that anything really dangerous happened, it was just traumatic for me bc I so badly wanted a hb). He was asynclitic/posterior, hours and hours of no break (literally, none) back labor cntrx, and narrowly escaped a vaccuum delivery. So I guess we're all worried about a repeat of that happening. Please reassure me that your babies are still floating too! Thanks!
-Kris, DS1 8/27/05, DS2 On the way, EDD 7/22/08









