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post #1 of 12
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I don't post much but am a constant lurker

Wanted to share a quick version of my story, and let you all know that there ARE some good hospitals out there...

So, Tuesday night, DS (17 months) and I were visiting my parents like we always do when DH goes out fishing. Out of nowhere, my parents' dog goes after DS and bites him in the face. Badly. I held my wits, go everything under control and we're off to the hospital in the ambulance. Get right into a room in the ER, waiting for plastic surgery, DS only wants momma and booby, but, can't have any. The nurses ask if I need anything. I say, a breast pump. Within, and I am not kidding, 2 minutes, they have a pump for me. We wheeled it around with us to the preop holding area, into the waiting room while DS was in surgery. I pumped right there in the middle of the night. No one said a thing. Get to the children's floor/area (Barbara Bush Children's Hosp at Maine Med) and they were all so helpful, told me to nurse him ASAP, get him all those good nutrients. He nursed the whole night, and since he was sucha good nurser, we got to go home early. They even said "who would want this cream of wheat they sent when he could have yummy mama's milk?" (he's on a liquid / soft diet for a while...). The stored my breastmilk, made sure to pack it on ice for me when we left, commended me for nursing my toddler and commented on how calm and peaceful he was.

So, amidst my horrible trauma, it was nice to have support. I was a little leary, thinking I would get strange looks or "you're STILL nursing" comments. Nothing but support, which is what I really needed.

thanks for letting me share.
post #2 of 12
hope your son is OK now and gets better soon

glad the hospital staff were helpfull.

Kiz
post #3 of 12
I hope your son is ok!

And that is so great that the hospital was so supportive! When everything calms down you should send a nice letter. Great to hear positive stories.
post #4 of 12
I hope your DS is ok!!

Awesome that the hospital was so supportive
post #5 of 12
Oh, I can't imagine how scary that must have been!
Thats completely wonderful that they know and accept that BFing is invaluable at a time like this.

When my 2.5yo had oral surgery, I asked immediately if I could nurse him as he came out of general, and the nurse ran to get me a rocking chair. It really helped.

Healing vibes to you and your son.
post #6 of 12
Cool. I had a nice (if you can call it that!) bf experience at an er once, too. The girls were dehydrated, but dd2 less so than dd1, and the nurse told me that it was because she was still bf. She was 2.5 at the time.
post #7 of 12
Ive had bad experience in a non-children hospital with BF but only GREAT experience in a children hospital with BF and especially extended BFing. Im glad that you had a good experience and I hope they treat all mothers like that.

I agree with nummies about the letter.. Let them know that you appreciate it.
post #8 of 12
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Originally Posted by julie128 View Post
Cool. I had a nice (if you can call it that!) bf experience at an er once, too. The girls were dehydrated, but dd2 less so than dd1, and the nurse told me that it was because she was still bf. She was 2.5 at the time.
I don't understand. According to what you've written the nurse blamed dehydration on the fact that you were still BFing - how is that nice? Am I missing something?

OP, that is wonderful how supportive the hospital was. Very encouraging to hear.
post #9 of 12
How scary! But the help you got for BF made me teary!
post #10 of 12
A bit of reassurance for you: My BIL was bit by an elderly cocker spaniel at about the same age 30yrs ago. Even then they did such a good job you can't tell in any of his childhood pictures, and he grew up to be a pretty good looking guy!

Thanks for sharing about the BF friendly hospital. It made my day.

I hope your little guy gets better fast!!
post #11 of 12
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I don't understand. According to what you've written the nurse blamed dehydration on the fact that you were still BFing - how is that nice? Am I missing something?

OP, that is wonderful how supportive the hospital was. Very encouraging to hear.
I think she means that dd2 was less dehydrated because she was BF
post #12 of 12
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Originally Posted by brymommy View Post
I think she means that dd2 was less dehydrated because she was BF


After reading your interpretation I went back and reread that same post again...



...yes, of course...duh
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