My DH and I had our 34 week appointment yesterday at the Special Beginnings birth center in Arnold, MD and to our surprise the MW thought the baby (our first) might be breech. She asked us to get an ultrasound done to confirm if it is or not. She said that if it is, there are things we can do to get it to turn, but my big concern is, what if it doesn't want to turn despite all our efforts? I have heard that breech babies sometimes even turn during labor, but I am concerned they wouldn't even let me try laboring. The BC's policy on breech babies is C-section, and my DH and I really don't want that, especially after what we've learned in Bradley class about the risks to mom and baby during c/s. I understand the BC's policy is probably because of malpractice insurance, etc., but still I feel like screaming because I don't want to be forced into major abdominal surgery for a "reason" like that.
So today I talked with Evelyn M., a home birth MW in the Baltimore area, and she said I should talk with David or Joanne (she didn't know, Rachel, the MW I saw yesterday) at the BC about doing external version and if there are any things I can do now besides waiting.
A friend of mine who had an UC with a footling breech gave me some links on breech babies/birth, and I am checking them out. Still, I am wondering if I should just give up on the BC and see about pursuing HB after all.
DH and I had decided not to do HB in March when we found out that my insurance didn't want to cover it but I don't think that is as much of an issue now since the MW would be willing to do a payment plan, but now we're not sure that the BC will work out anyway - despite my insurance covering part of it, we'd still owe the BC around $1,000 and we don't know if the MCHP insurance application will be approved - MCHP led us on to think that we had been, but we never got a letter in the mail (which should have been our first clue that something wasn't right) and apparently someone in their office either lost the application or it got lost in the mail, but they wouldn't be honest about it and tell us the truth. Both DH and I are super ticked off about that. DH is going to try to get the application to them in person and see if they'll approve - if not, then if we stick with the birth center we'll have to see about a payment plan - if we decide not to use the BC and head home for the birth, we'll have to do a payment plan anyway.
BTW:
1. To those in MD: Who'd recommend Karen and who'd recommend Evelyn for HB with a breech? I've heard both do them, and Karen's less expensive, but I am not sure...
2. Anyone think it a good idea to ask close friends of ours if we can use their home for HB? They'd be closer to the hospital if needed, and I feel as safe in their home as in our apartment. How should we ask?
Anyway, long-winded as this may have been, thank you all.
So today I talked with Evelyn M., a home birth MW in the Baltimore area, and she said I should talk with David or Joanne (she didn't know, Rachel, the MW I saw yesterday) at the BC about doing external version and if there are any things I can do now besides waiting.
A friend of mine who had an UC with a footling breech gave me some links on breech babies/birth, and I am checking them out. Still, I am wondering if I should just give up on the BC and see about pursuing HB after all.
DH and I had decided not to do HB in March when we found out that my insurance didn't want to cover it but I don't think that is as much of an issue now since the MW would be willing to do a payment plan, but now we're not sure that the BC will work out anyway - despite my insurance covering part of it, we'd still owe the BC around $1,000 and we don't know if the MCHP insurance application will be approved - MCHP led us on to think that we had been, but we never got a letter in the mail (which should have been our first clue that something wasn't right) and apparently someone in their office either lost the application or it got lost in the mail, but they wouldn't be honest about it and tell us the truth. Both DH and I are super ticked off about that. DH is going to try to get the application to them in person and see if they'll approve - if not, then if we stick with the birth center we'll have to see about a payment plan - if we decide not to use the BC and head home for the birth, we'll have to do a payment plan anyway.
BTW:
1. To those in MD: Who'd recommend Karen and who'd recommend Evelyn for HB with a breech? I've heard both do them, and Karen's less expensive, but I am not sure...
2. Anyone think it a good idea to ask close friends of ours if we can use their home for HB? They'd be closer to the hospital if needed, and I feel as safe in their home as in our apartment. How should we ask?
Anyway, long-winded as this may have been, thank you all.









