42 weeks 3 days, contractions that have increased in frequency and duration since yesterday, but no baby yet. My husband is getting increasingly scared and doubtful of having an HBAC, and his attitude is so not helping; he is starting to get into a medical mind-frame of managed birth. It's not like he hasn't witnessed normal birth - a neighbour woman back home actually gave birth in his car as he drove her to the birth clinic when he was 20! The midwife was over for my weekly appointment yesterday, and I conceded to being checked and having my membranes stripped. She tried to reassure me that having to help things along with natural methods is not wrong or an indication of a dysfunctional body. I really just wanted nature to take its course without any interference at all from me though. The midwife was was really concerned about the tension with my husband; he was almost kind of rude to her.
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7/12/08 at 12:29pm







I will be thinking of you & sending you peace, comfort & strength!!!
I don't know if it works but a friend of mine who's mom is a L&D nurse always suggests it before NSTs.


Either do something or leave me alone. 

: today's my edd! 
: I could totally go for a couple cheese croissants right now
:



I ended up taking tylenol and it's getting better. I cannot wait for my massage Monday.
I'm here contracting away wondering if MAYBE just MAYBE now since the kids are all sleeping... MAYBE
MAYBE real active labor will hit? But, alas... I think I wonder this every night the kids are sleeping at a decent time! 
this is what life has come to!
