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UGH! Underground, too!  

post #1 of 8
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I didn't wanna hijack April's post, so I"m posting my own!!

I went "underground" as of last Sunday! I am getting tired of all the calls! I mean, I'm not even overdue! (But true, I WAS having PTL - even though now I have been off bedrest for over a week and NOTHING but before I was contracting just walking across the dang floor to pee! ) I realize that people are just concerned, but I just can't take the "How are you feeling?" Um, PREGNANT IN JULY IN ARIZONA! I"M DANG HOT AND UNCOMFY! I stopped answering my phone. I even told my mother (I waited to call her when I knew she was at church, evil, huh? LOL) that I wasn't answering my phone! She calls me AT LEAST eight times a day asking how I am! Last Sunday I was in teh shower and in that short time - MAYBE 15 minutes at the most - the woman called me THREE times!! So this is why I waited until she was at church to call her and tell her that I wasn't answering my phone. Then she called me 2 days later after me not taking calls and she got all upset with me! "I know you aren't answering because people keep calling you, but they may be "concerned", but I "WORRY". I am your MOTHER. You NEED to call me. Just you wait until Katelyn is old enough and is pregnant and see how much YOU worry about her!" Okay, fine! Worry! But there is nothing to worry about! What's to worry about?? I'm 36 weeks (well, I"m 37 now but 36 at the time she was bugging me abotu all this) and I had *just* had an u/s that confirmed that yhr baby's fluid levels are still okay! Then I made the mistake on Tuesday when I called her to tel her I wasn't feeling well. "Why? What's wrong?" Um, were you NOT there for my last two pregnancies? I have m/s the WHOLE dang time!!! (Some days worse than others...) (And did she have the SAME thing with all three of HER pregnancies??) So then after I hang up with her, I end up getting a voice mail from her the next morning all freaking out! "I just talked to _______ " (A friend of hers) "and she has had a stomach virus that is going around! She has had stomach cramps and everything! I really hope tht isn't what you have!" Honestly! NO MOTHER! Again, I"M JUST PREGNANT! I am NAUSEOUS and occasionally puking NOT having stomach cramps! This is NOT a virus - unless you call pregnancy a 9 month virus! And then we went to lunch at the mall with my mom and step-dad today. We decided to walk around afterwards and I started feeling icky. I told DH that we needed to go and then I told them. Again, my mom, "Why aren't you feeling well?" Again I tell her, "Because I'm PREGNANT, mother!"

So, EVERYONE LEAVE ME ALONE! I'll call you when I HAVE the baby OR if I feel crappy and need to gripe!! *sigh*

Thanks fo letting me vent!
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Maybe someone should build a July EDD fallout shelter for anyone who needs some underground housing? Anyone else up for relocating?
post #3 of 8
I'm there with you! My family freaks out if my mom or dad call them because they think I'm heading to the hospital. Uh no. I've already told everyone that I am not calling until after I delivery. I do not need a show at the hospital while trying to give birth. Hang in there momma. I plan to go underground for at least a week after giving birth. I don't want anyone to bother me and DP while we enjoy being parents. Trust and believe I am only answering the door for my parents and my aunt.
post #4 of 8
I am sorry it has started so early for you.

We can be our own underground club.
post #5 of 8
I wish I could really go underground too. I am already feeling the pressure from my Mom, and she does not even know the EDD! Makes me want to lock my doors and put an "I've gone to Alaska, come back in two months" sign on my door.
post #6 of 8
My mom called me while I was at work yesterday to tell me, "Dh and I decided you should go into labor on X day because that would be really convenient for us...." Don't you think I'd LOVE to go into labor as soon as possible?! She was completely serious. She's so weird and I'm so not answering my phone anymore either.
post #7 of 8
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Claire! I love it!!!!! Packing my bags right now!

Okay, all, AND GET THIS!!!! I told DH that I was NOT going to go to church today because I am tired of hearing all the "You haven't had that baby yet?" (Um, I'm still HERE with an enormous belly, right???? Do you SEE a baby??") and "When are you due again?" and "How are you feeling?" questions. So, my SENSITIVE DH says to me, "Oh sure! Just leave ME to deal with everyone's questions!" (And he said it in an aggitated voice!) OH! EXCUSE ME for inconveniencing YOU!! : Heaven FORBID that you have to deal with one little smidgen of "pain in the butt" with people asking you things whilst I sit here on and hear my phone ring a thousand times a day with people asking me the SAME THING and it's not like this prengnacy has been a breeze! I think you can answer a few dang questions at church while your wife tries not to PUKE 24/7, tries not to pee herself just trying to stand up, and can't bend over if she drops something because her belly gets in the way, etc! SO SORRY you are unconfortable for a couple of hours! : : :
post #8 of 8
I feel ya! I have kind of taken myself semi underground. After that disappointing NSt on Thursday I just got really depressed and said "enough". I don't give a crap if they are left wondering "how I am doing".

I got so irritated the other day, my aunt called. Now, this is like my favorite aunt who I LOVE talking to but I just didn't feel like talking to anyone so I didn't take the call. Here is what her VM says:

"Hi love, just talked to your Mom, she told me that you don't want people calling you but I can't help it, so I'm just calling to see how you are doing. Please call me back."

WTF?! You just talked to my Mom and she specifically told you NOT to call me and then you do it anyway? I haven't called her back.

Then yesterday DH and I are backing out of the driveway, dogs in the back of the station wagon and my neighbor is like "Oh, where are you going?!" and my DH is like "The dog park." WTF? Like we are going to the hospital with the dogs in the car.

I have also received a call from my Grandparents but I might call them back because I don't think they will be too abnoxious....

There was a party DH wanted to go to last night and I physically felt up to it but I told him, I just can't handle all the questions.
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