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post #1 of 30
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because I'm up and it's after midnight -- morning!


I spent the past 3+ hours panicked that labor would start. We lost power around 9pm on a hot, rainy night. No power also means no water (well pump) and all I could see was labor starting and me having no resources for dealing with it -- much less I was a million degrees because of the lack of fans and a/c. It was also a slow rain, not the nice kind that forces cooling breezes through the house and I felt like I was gonna go nuts trying to get some kind of sleep with no air movement and humidity increasing every minute.

A little before 1am, we heard a huge crack outside and seeing as how we weren't getting to sleep anyways, we went out to see that our largest tree just lost it's biggest primary branches. Thankfully it dropped the side away from the house - though it's now very unbalanced and we imagine that the side closest to the house will drop at any time now - especially because it dropped from just some soaking rains and not from heavy storm winds or anything. DH and DD are going to have a lot of work to do getting the yard cleared and getting the other half of the tree seriously trimmed back to avoid taking out the side of the house.


Good news is that during our inspection the power came back on. I think the initial adrenaline rush of seeing the damage is now passing and the a/c has probably been able to fight back the heat and humidity in our room.
I think I can go get some sleep and can stop panicking about possible labor starting - though I would like to get some rest before anything happens -- just in case my body/baby was having any birthing thoughts.
post #2 of 30
I'm up too!

Glad your power is back, and the tree didn't hit the house! Yikes how scary!

I'm having some contractions, wondering if this is the real thing, DH just drew a bath for me, but its too hot so I'm waiting for it to cool down a bit.

Using the online timer, they seem to be anywhere from 3-5 min apart and lasting a min, but they don't really *hurt* so I dunno if its real or not? I feel a lot of pressure in my cervix area with each one, my entire stomach tightens up, and its really uncomfortable, but manageable? I've never gone into labor with out pitocin so its confusing me.

Off to have a bath and lay down...
post #3 of 30
i'm up to. i feel really weird. nauseous and gassy like my first trimester. reallly thirsty and have a terrible headache. been having dull menstrual-like cramps and the baby is really active which is unusual for this time. maybe this is the beginning stages??
post #4 of 30
Well, I'm up now. Last night I had the brilliant idea that I should try to turn the babe full-anterior, so I went down on my hands and knees and rocked gently until I couldn't stand the pressure anymore. I don't know what it did because I really suck at telling baby's position, but the pain way down low increased 100 fold and hasn't really gone away since.

I have to shamefully admit that my knowledge of female anatomy really sucks. I *think* the pain is in my cervix, but it could just as easily be round ligaments (?) or, I don't know, the lower parts of my uterus. All I know is I get a stabbing pain right in the vagina, or off to the side where my bump meets my hips. It takes my breath away. And now I have huge lower back pain. I couldn't sleep because of these waves of pain in my back, which would in turn trigger this horrible stabbing in my groin.

Ugh.

So I got out of bed. I can always go back later, right?

Much as I want this baby now, I kinda hope this isn't the beginnings of labour... DH has a paper due tomorrow and a midterm the day after - I'd sortof hoped to have this baby when he has a lull in his classes. :/

Sorry I'm not more positive! Up at 5am with a backache is making me cranky...

ETA - Eek, I'm losing my mucus plug - complete with little bloody spots. 0_o
post #5 of 30
Well I posted in yesterday's daily that DH and the kids were away Sunday and Mon. well DH decided to drive back to the city after he put the kids in bed at his mom and dad's farm a couple hours away. When he got home we went to bed, I rolled over around 130 and sprung a leak! Contractions are coming but they are not too bad yet. I'm having a baby today, at 40 weeks 5 days. : Not my longest pregnancy but not the shortest either. Good luck to all the other mama's in labour.

Jessie
post #6 of 30
Haven't posted for a while, but I try to check on when I can. Still pregnant and a little fed up... 41+3 days now...

Going to see the Midwife today - I hope this baby comes soon. I really don't want to be induced again.
post #7 of 30
41 weeks 5 days.

I had a bad bad day yesterday ladies. I was up early, the house was clean and I was clean and chipper for my MW apt. at 8:30 am and then she called and said that she had just gotten back from a birth, was really tired and wanted to reschedule so she could get some rest in case I went into labor. I didn't talk to her, DH did. And he says she was going to call me last night and schedule something for today. Well, she didn't call last night.

For some reason not having my apt. totally depressed me and I cried, and then I lounged ALL DAY watching movies, until around 3 pm when I finally got my lazy butt up and went for a walk. I was ok from 3 till bedtime when I feel asleep- DH and I even managed to DTD quickly (it was a resolution of ours to do it everyday until the LO arrives). Well for some reason I woke up at 10 pm crying in hysterics convinced that my body has NO idea what it is doing and that labor is NO where near close and worrying about all of the risks associated with going past 42 weeks. DH did not help things by becoming bitchy with me and even asked at one point (in a snotty tone), Well, than what do you want to do?? Do you want to go to the hospital?? He felt horrible about 10 mins later and said he was sorry (boy was he groveling), but for those 10 mins I seriously felt like he was a stranger and I was facing all of this alone.

I cried myself out pretty quickly and I did manage to get to sleep again and today I actually feel ok (at least right now). I got up started the laundry and am just waiting for my coffee to brew.

I really hope my MW can come today for an apt. I have hated weekends the past few weeks, but been ok during the week and I thought it was because DH and I were not busy enough and spent too much time focused on her not coming when we are together on the weekends. However, I don't think that is it- I think I see my MW on Sundays, we reaffirm everything is great with the baby, labor will come, everything is normal, etc. and then I start the week feeling great. As the week goes on I interact with people, don't go into labor, think too much about all of it and by the weekend I am a bit of a wreck. Add a proactive and excited DH to the mix and we spend the whole weekend trying to figure out how to get her to come- something that makes me tense and guilty when it doesn't work, but yet I have not been able to avoid.

Take away my MW apt. on Sunday and I have nothing to re-center me. At this point my parents and even DH are not cutting it. I need that apt. and really hope she calls me today to come over. I know I can call her (and I will), but I hope I don't have to because I am trying very hard to not be one of those patients. I want to have faith in my body.

Let me say, that the plus side of all of this is that I have totally lost my fear of the labor and birth process- I don't care how much it is going to hurt AT ALL. I just want it to happen and to meet my baby.

Hope you all have a great day. Thanks for letting me vent.
post #8 of 30
good morning! where is everyone? i'm coming in pretty late...
i'm at 38 weeks today, according to my calculations and this is longer than my last 2 pregs. itsweird. and for the last 2 days i've finally started having swelling in my feet. w/last ds that gave me about a week, and then he was here. i don't know if it means anything...or if any signs mean anything anymore....i'm just really crabby most of the time...
We have a couple of new babies that i'm going to go check out!
post #9 of 30
Wow, we've got some good action going on the boards! Ooh, I hope everything picks up for each of you & labor gets going going going!

emma - I hope your babe comes soon, too. Remember, you can always delay an induction if that's what you feel called to do.

jessiemom - Oooh! You're probably well on your way to laborland!!!!

HidaShara - sounds like early labor (Yay!), but your boyfriend may still have plenty of time to do the work he wants to do. Do you have a good friend who can come over & keep your mind off labor for a while while he does his work?

lotusblossom9 - I hope it IS the beginning stages for you! Might not be, but I really hope it is for you!

DawnaRose - My theory on the contraction master thing is that if you're with it enough to hit that spacebar, chances are it's not active labor!!! But, hopefully it goes active FAST for you!

xixstar - Yow on the lightening! How powerful! So would have been an awesome time to have a baby - roaring with the wind! But, not having power would certainly blow!

aprilibarra - Way to gestate!!!

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Originally Posted by aprilsfools View Post
For some reason not having my apt. totally depressed me and I cried... Well for some reason I woke up at 10 pm crying in hysterics convinced that my body has NO idea what it is doing and that labor is NO where near close...
April, if it's any consolation, I usually have a HUGE emotional meltdown the day or two before going into labor. I'd put money on that's what you were experiencing, too. I think it's just one of those HUGE hormone surges that push our bodies over the edge and making us totally unafraid of labor!

News on my front:
Contractions? Slowed down. Must be getting a break this morning.
Crowning? No.
Labor? Definitely not.
post #10 of 30
Good luck HidaShara!! Hope this is it for you!

I'll be 38 weeks tomorrow, and I'm just starting to feel *almost* ready for this baby to come. Although, if she would hold off until at least Sunday, that would be a huge help. I think she will.

I've been soooo stiff when I wake up in the morning. I guess I shouldn't complain, since I usually sleep through the night, only getting up once to pee at around 4 or 5:00 AM. But I think I lay almost perfectly still that whole time, and I'm creaky and sore like a 90 year old woman when I get up. I'm having BH ctx that are stronger, and sometimes I can feel them acting in my cervix. It's totally exciting to think of the progress, but I keep asking baby to wait until next week at least. I'm having period-like feelings of weakness between my legs, too (not cramps, really, but not sure how else to describe it--I usually only get this feeling when I'm having my period or if I've exercised hard to the point of sheer exhaustion). I wonder if it means anything....

My biggest concern now is getting everything wrapped up at work that I need to before the baby comes. I've been having such a hard time focusing on work, between thinking about baby things I need to do, feeling physically uncomfortable and exhausted at my desk, running around to doctors appointments, having houseguests, etc.--and now I REALLY need to finish up some projects so I'll be ready to go. I am sooooo ready for a break from work. Mentally, I'm already 75% outta here.
post #11 of 30
38w3d here.
My hips are killing me! Like Hyz, esp in the a.m. right after getting up. Time to blow up the rubber ball, I think. Other than a mw appt today, at which I plan to ask if I can go home after getting antibiotics if my water breaks, nothing much going on.
xixstar--scary about the tree! I always worry about our big pecan. It's already taken out our power and damaged our neighbor's garage roof...
DawnaRose: where is that contraction website? Must have missed that discussion...
April: hope that Spark is right and this meltdown means the baby is coming!
post #12 of 30
Not much going on except I'm very tired. Last night ds2 got up at 3 different times screaming- he must be going through a growth spurt at such a lovely time. DH is working 12 hour shifts hour half drive each way so I have to get up with him Then the stupid dogs were barking at the coyotes all night b/c it is getting close to a full moon. blah. But, DS2 is being more loving today than he usually is and patting my belly a lot and talking to the baby. Good step for him b/c he is going to be my jelous one, ds1 is super excited.

My only pain is my wisdom tooth that needs to come out as soon as she's born and I don't think that is going to help labor. I have been praying and talking to her like crazy. We DTD 3xs yesterday as well. Still nothing. I think she's confused and doesn't know which way is out...
post #13 of 30
Aprilfools,

I think we had the same EDD, July 2nd? I really know how you are feeling. It is getting to the point where it is hard and those 42 week statistics scare me too. Even if he risk is so incredibly small, who wants to take on more risk?

And yeah, while my DH has been AWESOME, he has had his moments of weakness. Like yesterday he said "Maybe you should get some cervadil tomorrow." I'm like- uh no- unless there is an indication (besides being post dates) that induction is a good idea I don't want to be put on the radar any more then I already am.

And yeah, that fear of "What if I am one of those very rare women that doesn't go into labor on her own?" creeps up on me too. I hate that.

But I have the same thing about having NO FEAR about labor or birth, I just want it to happen already! When I go for my walk everyday sometimes I can get these pains that aren't excruitiating but can be pretty painful and I find myself saying "Yes! Yes! More of those! Bring on the pain!".

Hang in there, our babies will be here any day.
post #14 of 30
Quote:
Originally Posted by Materfamilias View Post
DawnaRose: where is that contraction website? Must have missed that discussion...
I'll answer, because I think I know which one she was talking about... It's sometimes hard to keep track of this daily thread... it gets SO big! www.contractionmaster.com

Quote:
Originally Posted by Materfamilias View Post
April: hope that Spark is right and this meltdown means the baby is coming!
I hope it holds true for her, too!!!!
post #15 of 30
Well, I am supposed to go in for another NST today.

I really, really, really do not want to. However I am trying to follow my intuition and I am actually really on the fence. On one hand I just want to trust that baby movement = everything is okay. However, I can't ignore that my fluid level went from 10 to 4.5 from a Thursday to a Saturday last time. Even though the castor oil could have dehydrated me some, that is still a big jump. The CNM on Saturday told me true low fluid is 2, if my fluid is dropping at that rate it is possible that I could be there and that would be dangerous. Or I could have brought it back up with all the freakin' water I have been drinking, which would also be good to know.

So, I think I will go, although I am PRAYING that I do not see that same midwife I saw on Thursday. I might even ask when I call what midwife is checking the strips.

I hope I go into labor soon. I have to be honest and say that I am considering inducing if I hit 42 weeks on Wednesday. The stress is starting to get to me a little bit. I haven't made up my mind but I have put it up as an option (but I'm not going to tell my HCP yet, just between me and my DH at this point). I have been talking to my baby like crazy. I tell her how wonderful everything is here and how I love her and want to take care of her on the outside now. I tell her about her daddy and the family bed. But I have also been telling her that I am starting to feel a little scared and that I really want her to come out on her own very soon.

So that is where I am. My Mom offered to pay for some acupuncture so I am going to see if I can find a place that can do that today. I don't even know what to ask? Any advice on this? TIA
post #16 of 30
I'm feeling very nesty these days...never want to go too far from home, even though I'm only 38 weeks. I've been sleeping well and feeling more or less good and I'm mentally very ready for labor. I'm still feeling down about the positive Strep B, but I guess if that's my only worry I'm probably doing ok.

Otherwise, my ears feel a bit plugged up...no idea what that's all about!

Thinking about all of you whose due dates have come and gone. I can't wait to read all of your birth announcements in the coming days!
post #17 of 30
Thread Starter 
Wow, sounds like a whole lot of laboring action starting up - ELVs to everyone who needs them!

I managed to get very little sleep, think there may have been contractions but I refused to acknowledge them and this morning my belly is very sore. I'm mostly just up to eat and then head back to bed for some sleep.

Here are some tree pictures for the curious... first off is the picture of our intact sad tree, losing part of this tree was no surprise for us, we just figured it'd happen during a storm and not just on some rainy night. Here is a decent picture of the extent of how much was lost - there are several more in that set if you're curious. I'm now very glad I wasn't out in the hammock, though nothing landed on it, because I was seriously considering trying to sleep out there in the rain it was so hot. Would have scared me to death to witness that fall so close by.
post #18 of 30
I'm not feeling too good today. We did a bit too much Sat with 2 play dates, so I spent most of yesterday on the couch napping. Well, I must have overdone it as I could not sleep last night. Mix in the pains I kept having...not sure if it was dinner revisiting me through my colon or if it was some ctx. That is one problem with this relaxation stuff - it works so well I need to spend a few figuring out what it is!

This is a really bad week, other than being 38 weeks, for babe to arrive...but it is up to him. Other than feeling crappy, I have no indication at all that is the case, even though DH is convinced of it!
post #19 of 30
Tomorrow is my due date. Whatever that means. Aside from feeling huge and bloated I feel fine. No signs, just the constant BH I've been having for months.
I'm drinking another huge glass of that unsweetened cranberry juice...mixed this time with some apple juice. It's tough. My bladder still hurts, I can't decide if it's where the baby is positioned or if it's a UTI, my next appt isn't until Thursday so I'm just being careful.

Anyone taking out their impatience on other people? I feel like I've been so snarky lately... with everyone. I have about a .2 second fuse lately. My DH actually said the other, Ugh, I wish you could have a glass of wine, you need one... LOL
post #20 of 30
still here, still pregnant

very tired, going to lay down some more, had a lot of tossing and turning all night. :
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