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My DD has multiple food sensitivities/ allergies - dairy, soy, eggs, and oats and those are just the ones we've figured out so far. But she's totally negative on a RAST. Her symptoms seem to be all GI - mucousy, bloody diarrhea and excessive refluxing/ projectile vomiting.

The GI clinic is done with us. We cancelled the colonoscopy they wanted to do - all the things they said they were looking for didn't match her symptoms in my opinion. I knew it was reactions to food but they didn't think so. Once I had proof it was the food I called back and asked if they wanted to address it more and they said "As long as she's doing well there is no need for her to come back". Well, she's only doing well because neither she nor I is eating much of anything, but I guess that's not their concern. And even at that "well" is a bit of a stretch since she hasn't really gained weight in 2+ months.

The allergist has a 3 month wait and I'm not very hopeful of answers from there since she appears to have non-IgE mediated responses.

On one hand I would really appreciate a doctor who wanted to help me find some answers. On the other hand, the appointments cost money and are a waste of time - the answers are in the heads of other parents going through similar issues, not to be found at medical clinics it seems.

Am I not giving the docs enough credit? Should I be more optimistic about the allergy appt, or possibly try a different GI clinic?

Anyone having similar frustrations?
post #2 of 8
OMG- I could write a book about my frustration with doctors!!! We have been searching and searching and searching for any type of doc that knows anything about food allergies/intolerances... with no luck.

Most allergists won't deal with them unless they're IgE, but you might get lucky and get one that knows something about it! :
post #3 of 8
First, This is awful. And many of the doctors don't help much. It's not your imagination. You are probably giving them ample credit. They don't know much about intolerances, and most medical schools are still leaving "I don't know" off of their curriculum. I think you were fine not doing the test, since the blood in the stool is proof of inflammation. The test would just confirm the inflammation, not tell you why it was there. We too have been discharged by several departments, not yet having been helped. i think they just don't want us around to remind them they can't help all the patients who come to them.

Push them to refer you to a nutritionist, to get ideas about what nutritional deficits there could be and how to rectify (e.g., we needed more fats like avocado and olive oil, and more protein, and now he's gained good weight). Be prepared for anyone at anytime to say upsetting stuff...crap like, "nursing is useless", "probiotics are a waste of money", "he's fine, just start feeding him everything or you'll create eating issues." Just be ready to let it run off your back. Make them help you as much as they can and don't let them convice you you're crazy or making it all up. (Ultimately, a lot of how they act is their issue, not ours.) And read the "healing the gut tribe" sticky in health and healing. And stick around. You're a good mom.
post #4 of 8
Hugs.

This sounds a lot like my situation. We just Rast tested & it was all negative. My DS hasn't gained in a couple of months. I have no clue what to do next. The only think I could think to do is alcat testing to ssee if I can find my & his intolerances & go from there.
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Push them to refer you to a nutritionist, to get ideas about what nutritional deficits there could be and how to rectify (e.g., we needed more fats like avocado and olive oil, and more protein, and now he's gained good weight).
Its funny you bring up the nutritionist. I had the thought about a month back that maybe a nutritionist was just the right person to help me. It took me calling every health care provider in both my and dd's life to get a referral (I was initially asking for someone who would have some experience in this realm and was getting a lot of "I can't think of anyone" so I backed off in my parameters.) DD's pediatrician suggested the nutritionist at the hospital. I called her asking for an appt and she said she thought she could help me by emailiing me some handouts and that I didn't need to come in. GREAT!!!

So the handouts are things like ideas of high energy foods - none of which either DD or I can eat b/c of the elimination diet, and tips for starting infants on solids - sponsored by Gerber or someone similar - with the standard start with rice cereal and bananas, both of which dd reacted to when we introduced them way back.

I could call her up and ask her to please meet with us and help us create a more individualized plan, but sometimes I get really tired of trying to talk people into becoming invested in this.

Okay, enough feeling sorry for myself. Someone else - your turn!!!
post #6 of 8
What state do you live in? Maybe someone here knows a nutritionist.
post #7 of 8
When DS was 8 months old and weaned himself cold-turkey one day and wouldn't have any more of it, even if I pumped, we ended up at a GI ped at a Children's Hospital. He was great, gave me a sample of Nutramigen and Neocate (he said just give the Nutramigen to him one day, if nothing clears up, go to the Neocate -- the Nutramigen was just to "prove" that he needed the Neocate). Then he wrote out a prescription for Neocate (the insurance covered it completely) and sent me to the nutritionist that works for the GI dept. And she gave me the list of all the milk and soy "words" that were used on ingredients labels, and a whole bunch of stuff on food intolerances. They were great. Of course I had to get the appt. myself for the GI ped. because our regular ped didn't think anything was wrong. So it's possible that a Children's Hospital might have someone. The GI ped that I took DD too just looked at all my food journals and said it looked like I had everything in control, and to keep all the foods out of her diet for at least 6 months. It's been 18 months and every time she tried a food off her diet, she reacted, so I finally ended up with the ALCAT test, and she had gotten some foods back, but still had a bunch that she couldn't have. So no, I don't think one doctor has all the answers, though I sure wish they did!! I've had good and bad luck with doctors. They're not all morons though there seem to be plenty out there!
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What state do you live in? Maybe someone here knows a nutritionist.
I'm in the St Louis area. Maybe I should check the Find Your Tribe for allergists, GI's, and Nutritionists.
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