Okay, I know I'm a pg lady...but I'm in tears...I jut love you to pieces right now, man. You first came here scared, confused and not sure what to do...you were expressive and honest about your feelings and even though some of the things you were saying sounded a bit scary (NO, NO don't LEAVE HER! - I shouted) I still appreciated how honest and raw your feelings were.
Now...to get this kind of update...I'm just floored. I'm so happy to have heard this small snippet of your life...to see such an honest accounting of how it feels to be on your end of the stick. Thank you for your honesty and for your update.
Your website ROCKS and you are going to be a GREAT dad...I wish all the luck, love and peace in the world for you and your awesome and expanding family. As the day of your birth draws near...and trust me on this friend...you are about to become wealtheir and happier than you ever dreamed possible. It will blow you away, I am sobbing now as I write this...sobbing out of love for your situation, out of anticipation for you and your DP....these last nine mos with my DD have been so awesome for us, we weren't planning our baby girl...but oh man, how stale and silly our lives were before she came, looking back now, we can't imagine what our life was like without her, (We honestly don't remember!) she is our everything...we just suck every fiber of her in, she is so precious and fun.
The awesome part is, that it is soooo challenging, too...it's not all gravy for sure...but the hard parts are also the awesome parts, because they draw us closer together, make us a stronger couple. I highly recommend the whole thing...pregnancy, birth, parenting...it's all been so great....
Oh man...there should be restrictions on the posts a pg woman is allowed to read, I'm a real blubbering mess at this point. But that's because it's beautiful...your life is beautiful man...COONGRATULATIONS....
: There is no time more simply and purely good than this....love her up, rub that belly, sleep in together...it all flies too quickly from here, DAD!!