Originally Posted by GoBecGo
I would respond by laughing for a LONG time and then saying bye bye.
What does "damaged" mean? One of my relatives has serious fertility issues and cannot concieve. Her husband won't allow adoption because "If it isn't my blood i don't want it living in the house" - that GOD they can't have kids!
I've had a friend with a husband like this too.....that attitude just irks me.
I don't know....I've obviously never met this friend and I don't wish to be too hard on her.....I don't know what's in her past that makes her feel that way about birth, etc. I can understand the remarks about birth and pregnancy.....IMO shallow maybe, but again, her past might reveal why she feels that way. Her remarks about children of adoption though, are telling.....she sounds as though some serious therapy is needed. Surrogacy does not, IMO, souond like a good idea for her.....that's a lot of stress for a surro mama, your friend and her husband. It sounds like she wants a child without really caring for it. Really, the silk plant/pet rock does sound rather good.