|he seemed really hurt that I'm annoyed by his mom. I get that I'm the closest thing to a daughter that she'll ever have. I get that his maternal grandmother was the exact same way as his mom is so for them this is normal. I get that dropping by is normal for his family. He said he will talk to his mom if he really wants me to but I feel so bad about hurting his feelings and hers.
mama he needs some boundary reeducation... maybe get a book/checklist on appropriate boundaries. You are the closest thing to a DIL she will ever have ......not a daughter you can't be a substitute (that's kinda creepy IMO - big red flag
. This might be normal for them but honestly this is not their family its half yours and half your husbands. *word of advice its easier to get away with unloading emmotional baggage while pregnant
|She's the opposite of his mom and they all think it's kinda weird.
well your dh should have the same respect that you think your mom is normal IMO
and that's what you expect from other people...
Get this fireworks over with now before she starts blowing boundaries with the LO as we can all tell you that is the next step....