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The info you supplied now changes the picture somewhat. I'd stop enabling him, but I'd also not try to insist that he went to church.

I don't know that you need to kick him out. I'd try some tougher strategies at home first, over money, the car etc. And I'd tie it into expectations over him being a student. Either he is a student, or he's not. He needs to opt one way or the other imo.

Good luck!