I live in Southport! I would absolutely LOVE to get together with some like-minded momma's especially those who are drawn to Waldorf. This is like a dream come true to me, lol you just have no idea.
My DD is almost 2, so I won't have to worry about school for a while, but I am a senior in college (attending online) and I was planning on going for Waldorf teacher training once I finished my bachelors. I have heard that there is a small waldorf school trying to develop in Wilmington that is only taking Preschool and Kindegarten students for right now.. It is called the Live Oak School of Wilmington. If you would like their contact info, PM me and I'll give you the last contact information I had.
If ya'll are seriously considering starting a Waldorf group in Southport, I would love to be included!
Also, about doctors, I also practice no-vax and my daughters pedi has been pretty good about not pushing the issue. Check out Oak Island Pediatrics. The nurses will ask if you want to give your child a shot, all you say is no and thats it... I've never had too much of an issue. I only had to talk to the doctor once about why I didn't and she hasn't bothered me since. Said it was the parents choice. So I highly recommend her.
As far as schools, I have heard great things about both the montessori and the Christian school. So I think both would be great to check out. Unless you do the commute to Wilmington for the Waldorf school. I really hope this helps!
Welcome to Southport!