Mothering › Forums › Archives › Pregnancy Archives › April 2009 › who's currently nursing?
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:

who's currently nursing? - Page 4  

post #61 of 75
Thanks Casseiopia! I'm not worried about having milk for the new baby... just my DS. I sure hope I'm one of those women with no drop in supply!

Thanks, Guinevere! I appreciate the encouragement... I'm definitely keeping a closer eye on his weight, and I know he's normal so far on the diaper production. I don't like the thought of supplementing, but if we need to of course we will...
post #62 of 75
Quote:
Originally Posted by Guinevere View Post
Congrats, mama! You are definitely an incubator and milk-making machine! With that said, though, you definitely need to watch your little one's weight gain, b/c while there will always be the super lucky mama able to maintain a full milk supply during pg, the truth is that most of us do experience a diminished supply and would find it almost impossible to produce enough to nurse an infant full-time.

Hard as it may be to accept, you may indeed come to a point in your pg when you need to supplement to make sure your first baby is getting enough. 4 1/2 mos. is very young, too young to transition to solids to help make up for a diminished supply, and definitely too young to not be getting lots and lots of milk. Just be aware of what to look for (weight and length gains slowing or stopping, nursing frequently but not seeming satisfied, more lethargic, fewer wet/poopy diapers) and be ready to address the problem should it arise, and you should both be just fine.

Guin
Thanks for saying this Guin, as these are very important points to consider.

Most babies who successfully nurse through a new pregnancy are able to do so because they are getting their nutritional needs met else where (usually through solid food) and continue to nurse because of the emotional and physical attachment to their mother. If your milk changes over to colostrum half way through your pregnancy, or even towards the end, it won't be nutritionally appropriate for an 8 -10 month old to grow on. Putting a back-up plan in place now would be a great idea.

Ask yourself a few questions... do I want to wean my baby to a cup or bottle and supplement with formula (appropriate at this young age), or do you have a source of breastmilk to feed your baby should your milk completely change in a few months (like donor milk or some of your own you have stashed away?).

Do you want to tandem nurse? If so, consider a SNS feeding system, so that even if you have to supplement your baby with something, you can do so directly at the breast, then after your new baby is born, your older baby will still be fully breastfeeding and you won't have to try and get your baby back on the breast from a bottle or cup.

And definitely, definitely keep an eye on your baby's wet diaper count. It's the fastest way to tell if your baby is staying hydrated...ie getting enough of your milk. I counseled a mother once who's milk dried up during her pregnancy, but she didn't realize the severity of the situation until she started a wet diaper count on her nursing four month old. He was so dehydrated that he didn't have a wet diaper for 24 hours! I don't mean to be so dramatic, but having a back-up plan in place now could really come in handy a few months from now.

Congrats on your pregnancy! And good luck!
post #63 of 75
Thanks for the suggestions, Michelle. I will start thinking about a back up plan now. And I'll definitely keep an eye on the diaper count... yet another reason to love cloth diapers, right? If I have a load of wet diapers to wash, that has to mean something.

I think I probably want to tandem nurse, since he is so little.

I'm hoping that my milk won't do anything for another four or five months and then hopefully he'll be able to transition smoothly into meeting most of his nutritional needs through solids, since then he'd be about 9 or 10 months, while still nursing.

I obviously need to research more, and check out my options. Thanks for all the input, it is very helpful.
post #64 of 75
I'm still nursing my 22 month old DS and I'm not sure if we'll tandem or not. I always planned on letting him self-wean, but now that I'm (unexpectedly)pregnant and my nipples are hurtin I'm rethinking that plan... :/
post #65 of 75
I'm still nursing my 19 month old. He nurses a ton when we're at home, but totally forgets about it if we're at a friend's house. We need to camp out somewhere for the next 9 months! I'm open to tandem or letting him self wean, as long as I can keep enough weight on for the new bean. I posted a recipe for a delicious cold oatmeal in the healthy eating thread- for those trying to increase supply. I love it and eat it all day, even though hot oatmeal seems gummy and gross.
post #66 of 75
My daughter seems to be cutting back on nursing already- I don't know if it's developmental or related to the pregnancy. She did tell me that there was less milk, but I don't know what that's in relation to (or what it's caused by). I had to ask her to nurse on my right side this morning, because it was feeling a little too full.

A funny nursling story- yesterday my daughter "realized" that the baby would be nursing. She asked me if it would be nursing on my breasts, then thought about it for a minute. Then she told me she would stop nursing when she turns three (in November), and then the baby could have the breasts once it was born. Then she thought about it for a moment, and decided that she would like to trade birthdays with my husband so he would have a birthday in November and she would turn three and wean in April, when the new baby is ready for the milk. :

I've been lucky with no nipple pain so far. My breasts feel fuller (but not with milk- more like tissue growth) and a bit more sensitive. But so far so good... I'll be 7 weeks on Friday and don't have many symptoms yet, though.
post #67 of 75
Still nursing my 2 1/2 year old daughter, with no plans to stop. I tandem-nursed through her pregnancy, although it did get uncomfortable for me (skin-crawling feeling). This time around I'm going to make an extra effort to stay extra-well nourished (I was pretty sick to my stomach last pregnancy) and see if that helps get me through it. If it gets hard for me, I will just limit the time. I will add my voice to the Adventures in Tandem Nursing advocates - what a great book!

It's great to see so many mamas planning to Tandem Nurse!!!
post #68 of 75
I'm still nursing my 2 year old but i don't know for how much longer. I don't have issues tandem nursing if it comes down to it, but right now my breasts are so tender and sore it kills me every time he latches on. Plus I don't know if he'll continue after my milk drops.

I should get that book though, just in case.
post #69 of 75
I've started night-weaning Cadence this week and I'm shocked at how easily it's going. When she wakes up I tell her that the na-nas are sleeping. She complains for about a minute (says "no! no! no!") and then lays back down and goes back to sleep. After 3 nights, she's not even asking anymore. She's suddenly down to 2-3 nursings a day instead of 4-5. If she can stick to 2 a day, I'll be really happy with that I think. I wonder if her easy willingness to cut down is due to the pregnancy or just her growing up (she's 27 months).
post #70 of 75
Quote:
Originally Posted by CEVmommy View Post
I've started night-weaning Cadence this week and I'm shocked at how easily it's going. When she wakes up I tell her that the na-nas are sleeping. She complains for about a minute (says "no! no! no!") and then lays back down and goes back to sleep. After 3 nights, she's not even asking anymore. She's suddenly down to 2-3 nursings a day instead of 4-5. If she can stick to 2 a day, I'll be really happy with that I think. I wonder if her easy willingness to cut down is due to the pregnancy or just her growing up (she's 27 months).
I'm glad it's going well for you. It was about that age that my daughter changed from being an "all the time" nurser to a "few times a day" kid.
post #71 of 75
Update: I've been working on getting DS (26 months) to cut waaay back on nursing. It has been really rough; lots of tears, anger, and tantrums. I've just been explaining that milk snacks have owies and we can only have them at nap time and at bed time (and in the morning naturally), though I often give in once or twice a dya besides those pre-set sessions. I feel wicked for witholding from DS, but I have to respect my own body at least a little bit. It really hurts and makes me feel angry and resentful to nurse.
post #72 of 75
Quote:
Originally Posted by Gnatty View Post
Thanks for the suggestions, Michelle. I will start thinking about a back up plan now. And I'll definitely keep an eye on the diaper count... yet another reason to love cloth diapers, right? If I have a load of wet diapers to wash, that has to mean something.

I think I probably want to tandem nurse, since he is so little.

I'm hoping that my milk won't do anything for another four or five months and then hopefully he'll be able to transition smoothly into meeting most of his nutritional needs through solids, since then he'd be about 9 or 10 months, while still nursing.

I obviously need to research more, and check out my options. Thanks for all the input, it is very helpful.
Just wanted to add that even at 9-10 months old, he'll still need breast milk or formula, it is really important for the first year. Solids should always complement either breast milk or formula but they should not the majority of their nutrition. Course it does differ from child to child, some eat more solids, some eat virtually none at 10 months, but 20 ozs of formula per day at that age is average. I just did a talk to a baby group this week about this exact thing (it was a breastfeeding talk but I looked up some info for a couple of the moms that supplement) so it's fresh in my mind.






And yesterday the sore nipples/breasts started. I guess I should be jumping for joy that it wasn't before the test turned + like last time, I'm 5-6 weeks now, but it still is painful. I have milk though, : so far, it was all gone by this time with DD2's pg. DD2 is 22 months and still nurses frequently at night, that doesn't bother me, and she spaces her day time nursing out enough, maybe every 2-3 hours that it's not a huge deal. I'm just hoping the milk will stick around another a couple months cause I really, really hate dry nursing. Gives me the creepy crawlies just thinking about it.
post #73 of 75
I'm nursing my 10 month old daughter, and I'm super determined to nurse her as long as possible throughout pregnancy and then to tandem nurse.

Even though I'm determined, I'm still scared. My daughter is not so into solids yet (she does like avocado though), so we might have to do some supplementation of some sort, which I'm not too thrilled about. I'll just keep a very close eye on her weight gain.
post #74 of 75
Sore nipples kicked in here too this week. But she is night-weaned just in time!
post #75 of 75
yeah..sore nips started for me this last week too....i'll be 7 weeks on monday. it hurts so bad when dd latches on..youch! the rest of my bbs are sore, but not bad...

i know we will not continue nursing. she'll be 3 next month and as much as i really wanted her to wean herself, i think we may have to do it together....if she was smaller, then i'd go for tandem, but i just don't know if i can do that..i already don't have milk, so it's just a comfort thing for her. we are trying to find other things to do instead...more snuggles and reading books, etc.. i just have so much going on and i'm not happy with it anymore.. dd#1 was under 2 when i got pg with dd#2 and she was still nursing every 3 hours or so...at 16 weeks she just stopped one day and never even asked again. it was so strange. she just decided she'd had enough. she had just turned 2 at that point. i thought that might happen with dd#2, but she doesn't seem to want to let go. she tells me all the time, "i love those mum mums mommy" and hugs me and kisses them... a little attached.. so we'll see what happens...i wish i had more patience to keep up with however long she wants to, but i just don't and i feel guilty about that..
New Posts  All Forums:Forum Nav:
  Return Home
  Back to Forum: April 2009
This thread is locked  
Mothering › Forums › Archives › Pregnancy Archives › April 2009 › who's currently nursing?