I haven't told a SOUL
except for DH and DS (which is only 21months)
. I prefer to wait - I don't want the nagging questions "You preg. and DS still nursing, when baby is due, you wishing for girl this time huh, doing that HB again. And then they will start nagging DS about things - No thank you - I know how they are - well I should say mostly MIL and a few others. I could tell a few family members and friends that will be cool. And don't mind telling my parents who are on vacation right now as I want my mom to come back up for after this birth but will more than likely wait until after the 1st Tri.
I also am a private person and don't like all the sympathy from people if I were to get a miscarriage(praying not of course), I don't like the pity, sorry type convos, looks, hugs all those emotional things. I would tell them maybe in the future(like after I have a baby) so it will be so gone.
I could have this baby and not tell anybody but then everyone would be really upset and think 'bad' of me.