I noticed at least a couple of us who have had either previous pg complications or other reproductive issues which would make them high-risk.
I know for myself, watching most of my other gfs have lovely, worry-free pgs and fabulous homebirths has been hard at times, b/c it seems like all I do is jump through one medical hoop after another while pg. So many of the things I deal with during pg go against my natural inclinations, yet they are a necessary evil in order to ensure that everyone ends up relatively happy and healthy.
I thought it might be nice to share with others who have to deal with the stress and worry of a high-risk pg; it can be pretty isolating, at times. And unfortunately, I have often found that the specialists we're required to be followed by happen to be the people least able or willing to provide any emotional support; I've had some doozies of peris over the years!
I'll go first and give you my complications/risk factors for this pg:
* I'm now 36, so I'm officially AMA (aka over the hill, lol)
* I'm a major multipara, as this is my 6th pg
* I have had BP issues during past pg's, which have ranged from severe (pre-eclampsia and eclamptic seizures, fun, fun!) to mild (elevated BP from 30 wks. on, controlled by meds.) This will be my first pg where I start out already ON BP meds, b/c I have developed chronic hypertension in the past two years since Sophie's birth.
* 3 of my 5 children have been preemies, ranging from 31-35 wks. Even my 2 "term" babies were just barely term (36+6 wkrs.) I know far more about the NICU than any parent wants to, and measure my birth success by how few weeks we need to stay there, which I fully understand is not normal.
* I have a clotting disorder, which likely contributed to my pre-eclampsia. I now take baby aspirin throughout my pg's and will do Lovenox shots if necessary.
* I have now had a c/s, with my last birth, so I'll have to deal with all the concerns that go with that when laboring this time around.
* I have a child with a chromosomal anomaly (Down Syndrome.)
* I have gestational diabetes when pg, although it is extremely mild and easily diet-controlled. Frankly, it's kind of a footnote on my hx when compared to everything else.
So, that's my laundry list, lol! Despite all this, my last birth was a planned homebirth and would have been possible, had Sophie not gone into distress which necessitated an emergency c/s. This time around, I'm not yet sure who I want to see -- I have a great HB-friendly OB who is also quite capable at handling most of my complications. I could just go with him. But the care I received from my HB MW last pg, even though I didn't ultimately end up delivering at home, was phenomenal. It really showed me what prental care SHOULD be about, and I don't regret a second of that time with her, even if my outcome wasn't what I'd hoped for or planned. So a large part of me wants to have that level of care again, even if I don't birth at home. I'm still figuring it all out -- heck, I just POS this morning, lol!
What are your plans right now?
Guin
I know for myself, watching most of my other gfs have lovely, worry-free pgs and fabulous homebirths has been hard at times, b/c it seems like all I do is jump through one medical hoop after another while pg. So many of the things I deal with during pg go against my natural inclinations, yet they are a necessary evil in order to ensure that everyone ends up relatively happy and healthy.
I thought it might be nice to share with others who have to deal with the stress and worry of a high-risk pg; it can be pretty isolating, at times. And unfortunately, I have often found that the specialists we're required to be followed by happen to be the people least able or willing to provide any emotional support; I've had some doozies of peris over the years!
I'll go first and give you my complications/risk factors for this pg:
* I'm now 36, so I'm officially AMA (aka over the hill, lol)
* I'm a major multipara, as this is my 6th pg

* I have had BP issues during past pg's, which have ranged from severe (pre-eclampsia and eclamptic seizures, fun, fun!) to mild (elevated BP from 30 wks. on, controlled by meds.) This will be my first pg where I start out already ON BP meds, b/c I have developed chronic hypertension in the past two years since Sophie's birth.
* 3 of my 5 children have been preemies, ranging from 31-35 wks. Even my 2 "term" babies were just barely term (36+6 wkrs.) I know far more about the NICU than any parent wants to, and measure my birth success by how few weeks we need to stay there, which I fully understand is not normal.
* I have a clotting disorder, which likely contributed to my pre-eclampsia. I now take baby aspirin throughout my pg's and will do Lovenox shots if necessary.
* I have now had a c/s, with my last birth, so I'll have to deal with all the concerns that go with that when laboring this time around.
* I have a child with a chromosomal anomaly (Down Syndrome.)
* I have gestational diabetes when pg, although it is extremely mild and easily diet-controlled. Frankly, it's kind of a footnote on my hx when compared to everything else.
So, that's my laundry list, lol! Despite all this, my last birth was a planned homebirth and would have been possible, had Sophie not gone into distress which necessitated an emergency c/s. This time around, I'm not yet sure who I want to see -- I have a great HB-friendly OB who is also quite capable at handling most of my complications. I could just go with him. But the care I received from my HB MW last pg, even though I didn't ultimately end up delivering at home, was phenomenal. It really showed me what prental care SHOULD be about, and I don't regret a second of that time with her, even if my outcome wasn't what I'd hoped for or planned. So a large part of me wants to have that level of care again, even if I don't birth at home. I'm still figuring it all out -- heck, I just POS this morning, lol!
What are your plans right now?
Guin






This is baby #5). I've had an IUGR baby (Zoe was 5 lbs at birth - term - born at home. I'm quite sure she would have been a NICU baby if we'd been in the hospital.) I had a 9 lb 12 oz "LGA" baby last time.






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