My temper that is.
I have been asking my (not so) dh to put the birth tub together for a few days now and I finally did it myself this afternoon. Then we get home tonight and I ask him to put the clothes he wants into one dresser so we can move the other one out (to the garage until we can move it tomorrow or the next day to the in-laws) and make room for my arms reach co-sleeper. I want the dresser out of the room completely because it looks way too crowded in there as it is and we ARE trying to sell this house. Plus I already emptied out the drawers and moved 1/2 of his things to the new dresser already for him. He won't and doesn't want the dresser in "his" garage. So now we have no place for the co-sleeper, my mom is coming tomorrow and will be using the only other spare bed and my ds, dh and I can hardly fit in our queen size bed as it is.
: Ummm hello...we have another baby coming ANY DAY NOW!!! So I start putting all his clothes in the garbage bag and taking the empty drawers out to the living room. One was dropped and broke (it's an old dresser and I was probably going to toss it anyways but really...) and that made me even more
So now I have a broken dresser on my deck, my dh clothes in the garbage bag by the garbage and to make matters worse...my arms reach co-sleeper is missing parts so I can't use it any other way other than the "bassinet".
: So much for buying a used one.
:
The worst part is that my ds got so upset that mommy was throwing things away.
And that daddy was raising his voice at mommy.
He said daddy was being mean to mommy. 
What a way to welcome the new addition.
Anyway...sorry for the vent. I really needed to get that out and now I feel like crying.
And all this because I was trying to make room in our bed for our WHOLE family so my dh wouldn't have to sleep on the couch to make room for the kids.
I have been asking my (not so) dh to put the birth tub together for a few days now and I finally did it myself this afternoon. Then we get home tonight and I ask him to put the clothes he wants into one dresser so we can move the other one out (to the garage until we can move it tomorrow or the next day to the in-laws) and make room for my arms reach co-sleeper. I want the dresser out of the room completely because it looks way too crowded in there as it is and we ARE trying to sell this house. Plus I already emptied out the drawers and moved 1/2 of his things to the new dresser already for him. He won't and doesn't want the dresser in "his" garage. So now we have no place for the co-sleeper, my mom is coming tomorrow and will be using the only other spare bed and my ds, dh and I can hardly fit in our queen size bed as it is.
: Ummm hello...we have another baby coming ANY DAY NOW!!! So I start putting all his clothes in the garbage bag and taking the empty drawers out to the living room. One was dropped and broke (it's an old dresser and I was probably going to toss it anyways but really...) and that made me even more
So now I have a broken dresser on my deck, my dh clothes in the garbage bag by the garbage and to make matters worse...my arms reach co-sleeper is missing parts so I can't use it any other way other than the "bassinet".
: So much for buying a used one.
:The worst part is that my ds got so upset that mommy was throwing things away.
And that daddy was raising his voice at mommy.
He said daddy was being mean to mommy. 
What a way to welcome the new addition.

Anyway...sorry for the vent. I really needed to get that out and now I feel like crying.
And all this because I was trying to make room in our bed for our WHOLE family so my dh wouldn't have to sleep on the couch to make room for the kids.













My dh is doing a lot now (we are building a new house) but I think I get extra upset because he doesn't seem to really care about the new baby. I know he does but he doesn't really show it at all and hasn't helped with any of the baby stuff. He doesn't go to any appts. with me, doesn't come up with any names (other than to say that he doesn't like the ones I come up with