Again, I'm so sorry that they put you through that. Gross. Like I said, they laughed at me when I initially called, but ended up paying.
Does your HB midwife use a billing service? If she does, and if the prenatal and postnatal codes are submitted, there is a good chance that BC/BS will pay for that. My understanding is that it's all computerized and as long as the codes matched it's fairly automatic. Most midwives bill with a "global fee" that includes all prenatal, birth, and postnatal care. The birth code doesn't usually get paid by BC/BS (IME).
Now, we just need a "magic code" that's automatically paid for homebirth!!

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Document everything, and don't be afraid to stand your ground. You have rights, and they don't own you!
Jen
who strongly believes that they make Explanation of Benefits forms as confusing as possible so that you are intimidated into just taking it!