Anne, could you add the reference ranges too? Esp for something like free T4, I don't remember, but I think healthy, feeling good people are in the upper third IIRC. Also, yes, that TSH looks high to me.
Jacqueline--wish I could kick her a$$ long-distance for you. At least my midwife believed I felt horrible and had turned hypo, but we couldn't figure out how to get help (my doc blew me off, her doc looked at my labs and said they weren't bad enough for him to treat even though I had symptoms), but just the support was huge. Can you avoid appointments with this one midwife (sounds like a practice)? Avoiding negative people really helped, I didn't have the extra energy to fight, I just needed to get through each day (preferably without yelling too much at my toddler : ). It feels never-ending, but you will get through this, and there will be some things you can take from it that will be good.
The problems with the one mw are her stance on bfing in pregnancy and her beliefs about when m/s is a problem. I basically just ignore her.
ETA: Oh and yes, from what I recall, the T4 should be in the upper third.