I don't ever remember loosing my plug, just had bh like normal. Woke up after dtd to cntx's. My water never broke, dd was born in the caul. Birth lasted a little under 6 hrs and it was my first!
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Originally Posted by sapphire_chan 
I'm a bit worried about this since I keep reassuring dh "oh, you'll be able to do XYZ, it'll be hours before anything happens when things start up." 
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That's exactly what we thought with #1! lol I was in active birth around 3am, woke dh up, the first thing he thought to do was to EAT A LOT because he surely has hours of intense massaging ahead of him (he read birthing books). so he spent like 30-40 minutes eating a really hearty breakfast and running to me during ctx's lol, baby came out 3 hrs later! It's one of our fondest memories of birthing together.
My mom was staying with us to help with the birth and she was like "call the midwife
NOW!" and we're all "No, we still have like 10 hrs of this birthing stuff ahead of us... we'll wait a little longer." she finally convinced DH that he really needed to call. lol thank God for mothers!
So ja, you never know how much time you have!!