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What is the best sling to use??

post #1 of 23
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Hi all. Well I posted about slings/wraps in another post, but I just wanted to know of all the slings out there, what is the best one? I was thinking about the baby bjorn but I am hearing from some people that it hurts your back and that the position it keeps the baby in isnt good. (I did find it for $55 on Amazon though). Also, I have seen that the ergo slings have gotten good reviews but they are all at least $100.. I was hoping to find something a little less expensive. And, I know alot of you use the Moby wrap but Ive heard that its not as good when your baby gets bigger and that it can get really hot.. So, I am kind of confused as far as slings/wraps go. I would really like to know which ones you all recommend the most.. I appreciate any help with this. Thanks everyone

Jen
post #2 of 23
First off, it depends on what carries you like. I HATED the bijorn and the ergo, FWIW.

For the cradle carry, I like the Hotsling.

For the front carry, I prefer a ring sling.

For nursing, I prefer a wrap.

You're going to hear 50 million different opinions. My tip: try them all (if you have friends who have them), buy a couple you think you'd like, or make some yourself (or have a crafty friend make them for you). You really won't know until you use them for a week or so and get good at the carries. Also, your needs will change as your baby does. I used my hotsling when Toby was a newborn, and now I LOVE my ring sling and my wrap.

Good luck! Babywearing is so much fun!
post #3 of 23
Well that is a very personal/subjective thing. Everyone seems to have their own preferences as do their babies. Personally I don't think there is anything better than a made for you pouch for the first 4-6 months. After that I prefer a mei tai. I have heard really good things about the Ergo and if it weren't for the cost I'd sure try one. I can make my own pouch and mei tai so that makes it much more cost effective!
post #4 of 23
Like pps have said, it depends on your needs. You asked what type of sling was best but I assume you meant baby carrier in generaly. Before looking at the different brands, you would have to explore the options of soft backpack carriers (like Bjorn, Ergo), frame backpack carriers (like for trail hiking), slings, shells, or wraps.

When it comes to backpack carriers, most people have a soft carrier. The Ergo while more expensive than the Bjorn puts your babies hips and legs in a healthier and more comfortable position. Also, the Bjorn you have to gradually get new sizes because they weigh out. The Ergo (with an insert), you can use from birth until ~40 lbs. The only downside to the Ergo is that the carries are only face-in and it can be difficult to nurse in one if you are large-chested.

When it comes to slings, they are great for cradle/football holds, kangaroo holds face-in/face-out, front hip, back hip, back. A ring sling is also wonderful for nursing. I would recommend the Maya wrap or something similar. You can also make your own very inexpensively and generally in around 30 minutes. You can do similar holds with a shell but there isn't a lot of room for adjustment, but that can be very good for some beginners who are nervous about baby wearing.

When it comes to a tie wrap, there are as many different ways to carry your baby as you can think of. Most moms work with an immediate repitoire of around 5 different carries at a time, but those change with your needs and your child's size. A tie wrap is certainly the most advanced way of carrying a baby, but you can address any physical needs that you would have directly (upper back pain, lower back pain, hip problems). You can also leave a tie wrap on and just take the baby in and out of it without needing to re-tie it every time. Just be careful of what kind of fabric you choose. A moby wrap generally has a stretchy fabric that is good when baby it small, but makes it very difficult to use as the baby gains weight. A wrap is also something that you can easily make yourself. I would just look for a fabric that is breathable but doesn't have a lot of stretch to it, especially two-way stretch.

Best of luck. If you want more product-specific info, I would check out www.thebabywearer.com.
post #5 of 23
I like a non-adjustable sling (not a ring sling) to do a kangaroo carry with my 5 month old (I have an organic one I bought from Small Wish on Etsy). I really like the Scootababy to have her on my hip - it's SO comfortable and easy and we'll be able to use it for a long time. I liked the Moby when she was really small and it was cooler out. And I liked the BabyHawk Mei Tai to wear her on my front when it was a little cooler and she was a little younger and liked to snuggle up and go to sleep. When she gets a little bigger, I will also try using the Mei Tai for a back carry.
post #6 of 23
I really wish I'd tried a Moby when DD was younger (your 6-week-old would probably love it). Everyone says how difficult they can be to use, but I didn't find that to be the case at all. I put off trying one because I thought it would be too complicated, but I should have started off with one anyway! She likes the Moby now, but I mainly use it around the house since it can be a little complicated to wrap yourself in a parking lot (though you could just leave it wrapped around you and take the baby in & out as needed).

I have found so far that the preferred sling will probably change as your baby grows. I have yet to figure out the ring sling, even though I desperately want to be able to use one since they are easy to make and I could probably have a few different colors affordably. However, DD's favorite has always been the pouch sling (like New Native or the Maya Wrap pouch). These are easy to make, too. They are especially great for shopping, etc., since you just pop them in and go...no wrapping, very simple.

I tried a Mei-Tai, but she hated it. We're going to try again when she's older, though, since I think we hit a bad window with her...I think they're good for newborns and maybe 6 months+, but trying her in it at 3 months, she was too big for her legs to go inside, and too small to have her legs wrap around.

We'll likely use an Ergo when she gets older, since so many others have said what a great carrier it is.
post #7 of 23
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Originally Posted by sarahn4639 View Post
Well that is a very personal/subjective thing. Everyone seems to have their own preferences as do their babies. Personally I don't think there is anything better than a made for you pouch for the first 4-6 months... I can make my own pouch and mei tai so that makes it much more cost effective!
I second this.
post #8 of 23
Thread Starter 
Great ideas, thanks all!
post #9 of 23
I really liked my peanut shell for when mine was little, for nursing, napping, or hip riding. It comes in awsome designs, different fabrics, and has a toy loop and a pocket and is very easy to use. Now we use a baby hawk mei tai. Super cute, padded straps, and its reversable, so dh uses the more masculine side and I use the girly side. it holds up to 40 lbs with no hight requirement. It is way better than the baby biorjn which only holds up to 25lbs and has a hight limit and hurts your shoulders bad when baby gets above 15lbs, hated that thing! The mei tais have lower back support so it doesnt' hurt your shoulders,and can be worn on front or back. both are really cute and look good on.
post #10 of 23
Thread Starter 
Thanks, I will have to check out the mei tai's
post #11 of 23
Thread Starter 
Where are most of you buying the baby hawk mei tai slings from?
post #12 of 23
i loooove The Ultimate Baby Wrap, its basically just like the Moby wrap, but a bit stretchier.
post #13 of 23
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Originally Posted by Jen78fl View Post
Where are most of you buying the baby hawk mei tai slings from?
Bought mine off their website www.babyhawk.com and did a custom order so I could choose the fabric. You can also have a pocket put in and/or a toy loop.
post #14 of 23
For the newborn stage, I really like a gypsy mama stretch wrap. For the toddler in and out stage I like a ring sling. If I had to choose just one, it would be a mei tai. Wrap style ones like ball baby are my favorite....I dont like a lot of padding. I use mei tais from birth up and find them very comfy.

Check out the babywearing section here on MDC and also check out the forums at thebabywearer.com
post #15 of 23
This forum: http://www.thebabywearer.com/forum/ has TONS of advice about different styes/types/brands etc. They also have a FSOT (for sale or trade) section where you can sometimes find great deals on a sling you like.

If I had to pick just one sling, I would pick the ergo and my adjustable ring sling. Okay, I know that's 2 slings, but I couldn't decide. Ergo for walks/getting things done around the house (and for lasting long enough to carry a now 30 pound toddler around!) and the ring sling for putting her to sleep (she fell asleep in the ring sling for practically every nap and night time for the first 11 months of her life...heavy...sore shoulders...ouch! But boy, I was willing to do ANYTHING to get her to sleep! Not a nurse-to-sleep baby, my dd) Good luck deciding! It is a pretty personal decision, and the more you try, the more likely you are to find the PERFECT sling for you! Look in the fsot board here and on the babywearer, check the thrift stores, check the second hand baby stores, etc. I hope you find a good deal! I found my ergo NEW for $80 (even though it's the Organic one!) at a consignment baby store here...a mama had gotten 3 at her baby shower and was selling 2 at the consignment store!

ps: here is an ergo for sale for $85 at the babywearer. (I just went to the fsot forum and did a search for "ergo" http://www.thebabywearer.com/forum/s...highlight=ergo
Here's another one for $70: http://www.thebabywearer.com/forum/s...highlight=ergo

Yes, I am addicted to the internet and am attempting to do your shopping for you...*sigh* sorry
post #16 of 23
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Originally Posted by Jen78fl View Post
Hi all. Well I posted about slings/wraps in another post, but I just wanted to know of all the slings out there, what is the best one? I was thinking about the baby bjorn but I am hearing from some people that it hurts your back and that the position it keeps the baby in isnt good. (I did find it for $55 on Amazon though). Also, I have seen that the ergo slings have gotten good reviews but they are all at least $100.. I was hoping to find something a little less expensive. And, I know alot of you use the Moby wrap but Ive heard that its not as good when your baby gets bigger and that it can get really hot.. So, I am kind of confused as far as slings/wraps go. I would really like to know which ones you all recommend the most.. I appreciate any help with this. Thanks everyone

Jen
Hi Jen, it's a long shot but if you are in the Bay Area there is a Bay Area Baby Wearers meeting on Tuesday and you can try out all sorts of wraps and carriers there to help you decide what to get. If you're not in the Bay Area see if there is something similar to where you are. Or see if there is a doula in your area that can help you.

If you think you can handle a wrap (which is my personal favourite) there are other options other than a Moby, which is hot and will stretch out. See if you can find a woven wrap which won't stretch and is cooler. Some like a didymos are quite expensive, but worth it! (I don't have one and want one so badly!)
I have a Moby and I wash it often to bring it back to it's orignal shape, I also have a woven wrap and it's not as forgiving to put on since it doesn't stretch, but it's nice and cool. I have a pouch which is nice because it's easy to put on, I have a ring sling and it's nice, but I find they dig into my neck, and I've recently bought a Beco Butterfly which I love, it's dead easy to put on and so pretty!
There's a sale on them right now at www.theportablebaby.com

If you do some research there seems to be some backlash about Ergos since they have some less than ethical business practices, although the carrier is good.

I hope this helps a little!
post #17 of 23
I love my mei tei wrap. It's perfect for me and never had any trouble learning to use it. I actually bought mine off Craigslist from a stay at home mom who makes them for about $45. Nothing fancy, babyhawks are definently snazzier But if you are looking for a price break you might try looking on Craigslist if you have one in your city or if you are crafty they are apparently pretty easy to make and there are tons of patterns on the internet (I say apparently, because I am hopeless with a sewing machine)
post #18 of 23
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Originally Posted by Dea View Post
I have a ring sling and it's nice, but I find they dig into my neck,
Make sure that you have 70% of the shoulder fabric on the vertical part of your shoulder, like a sleeve. The fabric shouldn't even be touching your neck and the weight should be on the SIDE of your shoulder - not the top.
post #19 of 23
Thread Starter 
Thanks everyone! I am looking at this one on amazon..

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...pr_product_top
post #20 of 23
For a newborn to about 5-6 months, I prefer a wrap. A non-stretchy woven wrap, because they are more 'popable' - this means you can leave the wrap on you and pop baby out and pop them back in without having to really adjust it at all.

For an older baby 4+ months, I prefer a mei tai. My fav MT of all is the Beansling MT.

Its also handy to have a buckle-tai. I like Connectas, but Ergos etc are fine too. These are great for rainy days and for dads and for just quick dont want to think about it rucking and going.

I personally hate pouches.
RS are also nice, but I prefer them for the older child - 6 months+ (or whenever they can sit up unaided) as I really only like to use the RS on my hip and its great for plopping a child down on your hip and carrying on around the house or going out shopping. Nice for the walking child as well as they can walk, get tired, RS on your hip and then get out to walk a bit more again.

You cant just choose one sling ....never! lol You need a few at least and youll want a few more for different choices in fabrics lol

Never ever get a carrier. Once you go sling, you never go back.
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