Just wanted to update for anyone interested....
I went to an info night at my dd's preschool to turn in paperwork and have the vax card photocopied. I went up to the director privately and asked, "Do you have the blue forms for the vaccinations?" She said that yes, she did, but that she filled them out after getting the photocopy vax cards. I said, " I need to sign the back" It took a second, but then she got what I was saying and she said, "Okay, that's fine" I asked if there were going to be any problems and she said, " No, but the health dept. has been a lot of pressure on us to try enforce the vax policies" I told her that I understood but that I didn't need anything explained to me. She later told me when I was signing the form and filling it out that she didn't see my dd needing to be pulled out for any class time since they hadn't had a case of Chicken Pox or Measles for years. I smiled and said, " Well, if you DO get a case of Chicken Pox, pull Carlee out of class to hug and kiss that child and THEN call me!" She laughed.
Soooo, long story short...everything went great and had no problems with this preschool taking the exemption/waiver and my dd is starting t/th half day preschool on Sept. 2nd. YAH for California!!!