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My DD who just turned 15 months has started biting. Sometimes she will do it when she gets mad (she will also bang her head once against the floor). Other times she just does it when she is feeling silly.

I very rarely use "no". I use redirection instead, but for this I thought saying NO would be the right thing. She does understand no to some extent because she will answer a yes or no question accurately.

When she bites and I say no she laughs so hard and tries to do it again. I have tried saying "kisses" before she bites to get her to alter the behaviour but that seems ineffective.

My gut is telling me to just ignore it for now, because it seems like when I address it she enjoys the attention she gets. Probably because I am acting differently then I usually do?!

I would really appreciate any insight or words of wisdom from those of you that have or are dealing with biting baby.
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okay, same exact situation here...our LOs are almost the same age (mine is 16 mos.), and the reactions (by child and us) sound exactly the same. here is what i've started doing differently. i tell him "ouch. biting hurts mommy!! can you give mommy a kiss? (just like you said)" and if he does, "Awwww, thank you! mommy loves your kisses! that's so nice," etc. Here's what i've added that i think MIGHT be helping a little bit and getting more of a point across. if he won't stop biting (and especially if he laughs), i'll say, "ouch. biting hurts mommy. if you're going to bite me, i can't sit with you!" and i really will get up and walk away if he continues. i really think it gets a bigger point across. and i tell my 3 year old to do the same exact thing. he has a tendency to just push his little brother's head/face away from him if DS2 is trying to bite, but i've told him to tell him "ouch" or "don't bite me" and then to get up and walk away. hope this helps!!

ETA: and we practice lots of kissing during the day (with both boys and daddy) when biting didn't bring about the need for practicing kissing. does that make sense?
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It is nice to know I am not alone in this! I think I also need to watch the tone of voice I use when I stop her. If I make it too different then she gets the giggles. I like your idea of walking away.

I think sometimes she does it when she is bored, because it seems like she will often do it when I am trying to get something else done, or when I am letting her play on her own.

My DD knows the sign for hurt so I might also try doing that and pointing to where she bit.
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