Wasn't sure if you guys saw my update in the other thread so wanted to share this here too:
My bleeding never got bright or heavy so my RE scheduled a D&C. When she was doing a u/s yesterday she saw what she thought was fluid in my tubes and said that could've caused the miscarriage. Well within an hr of that appt I was in excrutiating pain.
I ended up in the hospital where she did a D&C, removed my left fallopian tube and did a ligation on my right. I was having internal bleeding from the "fluid" in my tube. Turns ou she thinks it was an ectopic pregnancy but doesn't think it was from the transferred embryo!!
She thinks I may have released an egg that we somehow fertilized (even though the only sex we had was with a condom. Which means I got pregnant on my own? I think she is going to send whatever she found to get tested and find out exactly what it was.
Scary thing was she told my DH after the surgery that had I not come into the hospital I "wouldn't have made it thru the night". Thank goodness I had talked to my mom and she ha warned me if I had any pain to get right back in to see her.
Strangely as soon as my surgery was over, all the worry and stress I've been feeling is gone. It's like my intuition has been going crazy for weeks and now I have a deep sense of peace about it all.
My husband had a dream last night (he has had about 3-4 dreams since I've known him and they've all been prophetic). He told me he dreamt I was hugely pregnant with twins, that we were having the homebirth we wanted and our midwife had glasses. lol He said he feels certain we are suppose to have twins and one embryo wasn't coming without the other one.
Anyway I'm feeling really good. Sore from the laporoscopy but much better than I thought. And again I feel so relieved now with all that fear gone.
Still no decision made how or if or when we'll go forward but feeling good no matter what that this all turned out so good in the end.
Good luck ladies!! Maybe it'll be in the cards for me another time. Until then I'm feeling blessed to be alive and well!