i guess thats the beauty of a homebirth w/ a MW who isnt into a bunch of interventions..i dont have to fight about any of this stuff. I do my research and figure out what i want and dont want (mostly dont want) and my MW is great w/ that. Same w/ seeking a naturopath...she understands and agrees w/ my line of thinking, so again..no fighting.
we are pretty alternative when it comes to medicines of any sort though. the ONLY thing we are doing is the PKU, potentially (we wont unless we can find a lab that will destroy his DNA b/c i dont want it banked).
im confident that what we are doing is the best for my family. after reading through the research, i can understand why some would chose to accept some of the interventions....i think we each just need to respect that not all of us come to the same conclusions.