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poor DD gets double trouble  

post #1 of 8
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Would somebody please critique my idea?

I have a preschooler. She has twin siblings, 18 months old. I'm sure it's a perennial problem for kids-- every single time DD gets absorbed in playing with something, there's her pesky little sibling getting into it and ruining it for her. Only she has two of them! She's going nuts, and I'm going nuts negotiating the constant fights. She has private space in her bedroom, but she wants to play where I am, and I have to be with the babies.

A gate won't work. We have a great room, that's divided into a living room area, a dining room area, and a playroom area, but it's all one giant room. So I had the idea that I'd get one of those play yard enclosures, only not for the babies (they'd never tolerate it; they'd SCREAM if I shut them in a baby playpen) but for DD. She's old enough to understand, and to appreciate the private space. I would put her little desk in there and she could choose toys to play with in there. She'd be right there with us, only the babies couldn't mess up her games. The babies would holler about not being allowed in, but they'd get over it, and I think DD would appreciate the special privilege of being the only one who could go in.

What I'd really like to find would be one that has a gate that opens and closes, so that she can go in and out on her own. She can operate the gate I have on the stairs on her own. Does anyone know of one?

Anyway, do you think this could work? Am I crazy to think this is the solution to our troubles?
post #2 of 8
That was the solution I was going to suggest!

This one has a gate, but is kind of pricey:
http://www.onestepahead.com/catalog/...tegoryId=85217
post #3 of 8
I think that's a great idea!
post #4 of 8
I love this idea! Hope it works out well!
post #5 of 8
We did something similar. We had this one http://www.toysrus.com/product/index...ductId=2265804 and set it up on a corner around our computer and another table so that my bigger kids could have a place to build with legos or do art projectsor do a computer game. It worked well. Sometimes ds2 would flip out if they were both in there, but it was much easier to distract him if he physically could not get in there.
post #6 of 8
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An update...

Well, I went ahead and bought her
http://www.onestepahead.com/catalog/...tegoryId=85217
because I found it MUCH cheaper than that online. It came this morning, and for the first time since the twins learned to walk, DD1 has not had ONE SINGLE TANTRUM all day. She has spent all her inside play time today sitting in there playing games with her little trucks and setting up all sorts of little imaginary scenarios with her animals, and just generally being the happy little girl she always was before. I never realized before how badly she was stressed out about the babies getting into her "stuff," until I watched the stress be relieved.

Whew.

Even if it only lasts one day, and tomorrow the novelty has worn off, for me it was worth it to see my baby girl so happy for awhile.
post #7 of 8
I did that for my son when DD was starting to get into things (DS was almost five, DD one). He happily played in one of those superyards with his toys . . . she would sometimes cry to get in, but I'd just distract and play with her. It worked out very well, and he liked having a sister proof space near me.
post #8 of 8
What a wonderful idea! I'm glad it worked out for you.
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