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post #21 of 26
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Originally Posted by elisent View Post
Definitely call the 800 number for corporate or fill out the comment form on their website, too. Corporate takes those very seriously and sends them directly to the store managers for review.
I sent the following letter via the website to corporate:
My name is Angela and I am the mother of two young children, with another on the way. As you can imagine, we eat at McDonald's more than our fair share.

I have been very disheartened to hear of not one, but TWO separate incidences this past week of women who were harassed by McDonald's employees about nursing their children while in the restaurant.

The lack of policy protection and acceptance of a breastfeeding mother and her child is a stark contrast to an otherwise family friendly focus complete with Kiola Care restroom facilities, playlands and Happy Meals.

My hope is that McDonald's will issue a corporate wide policy that reflects acceptance of breastfeeding. Perhaps "breastfeeding mothers welcome here" logos and the icon for nursing mothers stickers could be put on the entrance doors, and employees taught to respect a mother's right to nurse her infant anywhere that mother is authorized to be. (Many states actually have laws specifically protecting this right for nursing mothers, however, in at least of the one of two cases brought to my attention the mother was harassed DESPITE the legal law in place to protect her!)

For more information about the international breastfeeding symbol see: http://www.breastfeedingsymbol.org/

Thank you for your time - I look forward to your response.

Blessings,
Angela <><
post #22 of 26
I am outraged that they would ask you to stop!!!! That is ridiculous!!!!:


Good job on the letter!! Be sure and let us know what their response is.
post #23 of 26
I swear - they do not actually READ these emails.

The reply I got basically said "we're sorry for your inconvenience, please call the 800 number with specific store information that we can forward to the franchise owner".

Apparently I was not clear enough that this did not happen to ME but actually happened to two different mothers in two different McDonald's. I sent the following response:

Sarah, et al (I would love for this exchange to be forwarded to someone in a Human Rights department or Personnel Department since ultimately this is a discrimination against basic human rights and should be addressed via employee training!)

If you read my initial email carefully (See it below), this incident did not happen to me personally. It is actually TWO separate occasions at two DIFFERENT McDonald's.

My concern is that, as a nursing mother, the lack of corporate policy on this issue leaves my future dignity up to the whims of an individual manager, owner or employee. The fact that two different harassments happened at two different McDonald's restaurants in two different states highlights the fact that this is not a human rights issue covered during training or via home office policy. If someone complained that there was a Muslim eating at the restaurant are your employees, managers and owners trained in how to respond to that complainer? Of course they are! They should be equally trained in how to respond to another customer who might complain about a breastfeeding mother - they should learn how to respond to the complainer WITHOUT harassing the mother or infringing on her rights to feed her child.

The two McDonald's in question are this one in Georgia: In Cartersville GA, right off of I75.
5651 Highway 20 NE
Cartersville, GA 30121
(Georgia state law on breastfeeding reads "Ga. Code An. § 31-1-9

The breast-feeding of a baby is an important and basic act of nurture which should be encouraged in the interests of maternal and child health. A mother may breast-feed her baby in any location where the mother and baby are otherwise authorized to be.")

And the second McDonald's where a nursing mother was harassed by an employee (in this case, manager) is: Berea, KY.
(The state law in Kentucky reads " 211.755 Breast-feeding permitted -- Municipal ordinances not to prohibit or restrict -- Interference prohibited.
(1) Notwithstanding any other provision of the law, a mother may breast-feed her baby or express breast milk in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be. Breast-feeding a child or expressing breast milk as part of breast-feeding shall not be considered an act of public indecency and shall not be considered indecent exposure, sexual conduct, lewd touching, or obscenity.
(2) A municipality may not enact an ordinance that prohibits or restricts a mother breast-feeding a child or expressing breast milk in a public or private location where the mother and child are otherwise authorized to be. In a municipal ordinance, indecent exposure, sexual conduct, lewd touching, obscenity, and similar terms do not include the act of a mother breast-feeding a child in a public or private location where the mother and child are otherwise authorized to be.
(3) No person shall interfere with a mother breast-feeding her child in any location, public or private, where the mother is otherwise authorized to be.
Effective: July 12, 2006
History: Created 2006 Ky. Acts ch. 80, sec. 1, effective July 12, 2006")

In both of these cases, despite state laws protecting breastfeeding women from discrimination, they were still harassed.

I have exclusively nursed both of my children so far, and plan to nurse the child I am pregnant with right now. What I want is for McDonald's to establish a nation-wide acceptance of breastfeeding mothers in ALL McDonald's franchise restaurants so I can confidently visit your establishments in the future.

See the link in my first email to where you can get an international breastfeeding symbol to display on all McDonald's entrance doors to show your corporate support for this ultimate act of nourishment. It would certainly reflect the other "family-friendly" initiatives your restaurant has taken in the past.

Blessings,
Angela <><
post #24 of 26
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As a former employee, we were not trained on how to handle anything. We were told to let management handle everything. Seems like that's what happened in my case, and management (who are also not trained on this either, seriously I was in training for mgmt when I quit) just scapegoated a poor employee.
post #25 of 26
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Originally Posted by pumpkinyum View Post
Good gracious--WHAT is with McDonald's lately?
Well, all of their chemicals!!!

Off-gasing,oil,sugar,white flour,pesticides,cow feces!! First,the SMELLS become part of what the employees wear....then very slowly....it permeates the braines of those who've worked there for very long.

There HAS to be a name for it...it's too late for my brain to think of one-but there has to be!

Writing my own letter first thing in the AM.
post #26 of 26
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Originally Posted by sunnymw View Post
As a former employee, we were not trained on how to handle anything. We were told to let management handle everything. Seems like that's what happened in my case, and management (who are also not trained on this either, seriously I was in training for mgmt when I quit) just scapegoated a poor employee.
Well - They should!

And I still say putting international breastfeeding symbols on all the entrance doors would be a good idea.

Angela <><
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