TTC supporter and UC planner.
Just this morning I had an *incredible* dream that turned into a waking dream (I can do that to finish dreams when I'm woken, it's cool) of having a baby in my living room, without my husband b/c in the dream he was sick, but hubby's best friend came over and helped me when I asked for help (physical support). As baby was coming out the friend got hubby and our son, and I was surrounded by males, and it was a wonderful dream (I have always been closer to guys than to women, don't trust women as much, and it was a huge mistake to use a female midwife with DS). And then as I thought the dream was over, whoops, out came another baby, breech. It was a very very cool dream.
Originally Posted by jeninejessica
Current talks plan for one hands off midwife attended HB as a "trial run", and then any others will be UC. Need to reassure my medical hubby first that I'm "normal".
Just my thoughts, just my experience....to me, that is nearly the same as "have your first in a hospital to see what it's like, then if you want to, have a homebirth", which is what ALL of my friends said to me.
Since I truly wanted a UC, but got a midwife to make my hubby happy, my body seemed to respond to her as though she was a tiger interrupting a deer in labor. I pretty much shut down.
So really think long and hard about doing that, b/c I would hate for you to have the same issues with your hubby as I did (and sometimes do) with mine, b/c he pressured you to go against your instincts.