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Originally Posted by mountaingirlbl 
I am gearing up for the sickness mentally. I have a three year old and am worried about how I will take care of her while I'm so ill. Any suggestions?
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congratulations on the pregnancy!!!
my best suggestion is to use the herbs mentioned at the beginning of this thread ASAP. they help to at least some extent. (i've only lost 8-10 lbs with this pregnancy and with the others I lost 27 and 24ish!) the sooner you start the better the results. I highly recommend dandelion AND milk thistle daily.
make some meals to free now if you can. and find some friends or family that might be able to help with childcare if it gets really bad. I know that isn't always an option, but if it is - USE IT! get everyone mentally ready that you may get sick - and just how sick you got last time so it's not a surprise. make sure you have plenty of healthy snack on hands for you and your child. stuff you don't mind her nibbling on through out the day. write easy mandatory/general grocery list for you S/O so you don't have to think so hard when you're sick. then you can add to it easily as need arises...
and even if you get sick (even quite sick) try to focus through out that pain and sickness on how much you love this baby. this will help combat that resentment towards the baby that often stems from HG. (I struggle with this deeply. when you're dehydrated you can't think clearly at all enough to realize it's not the baby's fault ykwim?)
my best advice is to take whatever meds you may need BEFORE the HG gets out of control. not after. it can take days or weeks to control it once it gets out of hand and you start rapidly loosing weight and muscle and water. this si about the best advise I ever got honestly. if you realize you are getting quite nauseous, start taking the meds. this is one area you don't want to be modest in, IMO.
(((hugs)))
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