You know, I have found it so suspicious when people ask me if twins run in our family. I feel like what they really want to know is if it was IVF. And if it was, do they have an opinion on that? I find that when I start to answer about my mom's cousin, and.... they cut me off so quick, question answered for them. It irritates me, as I don't know what the point is, IVF or spontaneous. No offense to IVF-ers here, but I wonder if they are thinking "did you bring this twin thing upon yourself?" Like maybe they wouldn't extend their "sympathy" to someone w/multiples who had IVF, (not that their "sympathy" is helpful at all
) I rarely get irked at different twin questions, but this one bugs me!!! And, I guess, that people decide it must be a rough go as you have twins. Yeah, it's hard, but my DD1 (whom I ADORE) is SUCH a bigger challenge than my twins. I feel so blessed by them.