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post #1 of 57
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The thread on naming a Mexican/Appalichian boy made me wonder what mamas like me have named their kids! DH is Lebanese and I'm Mexican, so we had to find names that worked in Arabic, Spanish and English. What we came up with:

Maher Alexander
Maya Cecilia
Samer Nicholas

Also, although DH didn't want middle names at first, he eventually agreed, but we used his first name on their birth certificates as well. So they all actually have three names.

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What names did you all choose, and how did you negotiate different naming conventions?
post #2 of 57
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Originally Posted by LauraN View Post
The thread on naming a Mexican/Appalichian boy made me wonder what mamas like me have named their kids! DH is Lebanese and I'm Mexican, so we had to find names that worked in Arabic, Spanish and English. What we came up with:

Maher Alexander
Maya Cecilia
Samer Nicholas

Also, although DH didn't want middle names at first, he eventually agreed, but we used his first name on their birth certificates as well. So they all actually have three names.

:

What names did you all choose, and how did you negotiate different naming conventions?
Well, judging by the names in my signature line, I just skipped the english influence altogether. Actually for my son's name we were concerned mostly just with being able to be pronounced, and with my daughter I tried to pick an english spelling I've seen more commonly used in the U.S. Likewise, middle named we decided on the arabic naming convention to ease things in dual citizenship terms.

I have friends who are a hispanic woman married to an arabic-speaking man and living in America, so they had the same three languages issue ... their children are Salma and Omar.
post #3 of 57
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Well, judging by the names in my signature line, I just skipped the english influence altogether.
I LOVE the name Ziad! My SIL is pregnant, and both DH and I are lobbying her to choose Ziad if it's a boy... Your children's names are beautiful. :

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I have friends who are a hispanic woman married to an arabic-speaking man and living in America, so they had the same three languages issue ... their children are Salma and Omar.
You know what's funny? Growing up in Mexico, I never noticed how many people of ME origin there were around me. They seem to integrate into Mexican society so thoroughly, that I never thought of them as foreign. So I had a ton of friends who I now realize had Arab names (like Salma and Omar) and I honestly didn't realize they weren't in Spanish. OK, maybe I'm just slow but it wasn't until DH was looking through my high school yearbook that I realized, as he was pointing it out, how many Arabs were in my school!

Anyone else? Did you negotiate, compromise (or not) and come up with beautiful names?
post #4 of 57
Hi! My dh is also Lebanese, so I know the potential minefield of the middle name quandry! I agreed to use my dh's name for boys' middle names, but not for girls'. So we have (so far): Ali Mustapha and Maya Rose. If we have another boy, it will be Zachary Mustapha or Zain Mustapha. If we have another girl, dh wants Jenna (I also like Lena), but I haven't decided on a middle name--either Jenna Grace or Jenna Eden.
post #5 of 57
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Hi! My dh is also Lebanese, so I know the potential minefield of the middle name quandry! I agreed to use my dh's name for boys' middle names, but not for girls'. So we have (so far): Ali Mustapha and Maya Rose. If we have another boy, it will be Zachary Mustapha or Zain Mustapha. If we have another girl, dh wants Jenna (I also like Lena), but I haven't decided on a middle name--either Jenna Grace or Jenna Eden.
Hey, we both chose Maya! In fact, mine was going to be Maya Rose until about a week before she was born. I heard someone call for Cecilia on the street one day and remembered that I had always loved that name as a child.

And I have an Australian/Lebanese friend who named her son Zain. I think that's such a cool-sounding name.
post #6 of 57
We tried to choose names that were easy for Americans to pronounce, but we're also definitely Arabic (or both). So we ended up with Sami (boy), Ali (boy), and Sara (girl). All three kids have DH's name as middle name, which is a pet peeve of mine... especially for Sara.
post #7 of 57
My children defintiely have arab names. I am Nicaraguan/ everything else and my dh is Tunisian. We are muslim so I wanted my kids to have beautiful arab names. My son has my husbands first name as his middle. It was actually supposed to be his first but I changed my mind when I was filling out the birth certificate. And my daughter's name translate to jasmine,beauty of the night. Since she was born at night and I love the name. Her names have songs in my husbands country, so that's a bonus. And my son has a bunch of stores and famous people to relate to.
post #8 of 57
DD's name is Amira Lauren
I'm half Arab(yemeni) and Somali, Dh is "white" so there you go.
post #9 of 57
two girls DH is Lebanese, I'm American

DH is a big duran duran fan and I'm a hippie chick, so he picked our DD#1's name and I picked her middle name, I would not budge on my girl(s) having a boys middle name, however, when we register the girls in Lebanon, they will have Dad's first name as their middle name there so DD#1 is Rio Rayne (pronounced 'rain')... I love her name, I had no problem with the name Rio, however, in Lebanon many felt the need to correct us stating that a girl cannot have a Spanish name ending in 'o' and when we would say her name is Rio they would answer, "oh, you can't have a girl's name ending in 'o', so you mean her name is "Ria"... eventually my DH gave up on arguing and when we take her there to visit she can be the one to tell people off.

DD#2: I really wanted to have another 3 letter name, but the Arabic names didn't do it for me or my husband. I really love the name Kai which is Hawaiian for ocean and I thought it would be really cool to have a river and an ocean, but DH said that Kai was a boys name and not that pretty. He brought up "Yasmine"... I wasn't too thrilled with it and I didn't think it matched "Rio"... I didn't think it was that unique. Then one day we were watching the today show and miss universe from Japan was on and her name was Riyo (pronounced 'Rio') and she said that Riyo in Japanese means 'jasmine' so I was sold, both of my girls names mean 'jasmine' one in Japanese and one in Arabic. But we didn't want people to pronounce it "American" we wanted it to be pronounced "Yesmeen" so that's how we spell it. Her name is Yesmeen Sky. I picked her middle name too LOL

so in America, my girls are named Rio Rayne and Yesmeen Sky and in Lebanon their names are Rio Najib and Yesmeen Najib.

If we have a boy, it's a no brainer, he would get FIL's name.
post #10 of 57
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We tried to choose names that were easy for Americans to pronounce, but we're also definitely Arabic (or both). So we ended up with Sami (boy), Ali (boy), and Sara (girl). All three kids have DH's name as middle name, which is a pet peeve of mine... especially for Sara.
I love your kids' names! Both Sami and Sara are names we considered at various times.

I'm loving this thread!
post #11 of 57
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DD's name is Amira Lauren
I'm half Arab(yemeni) and Somali, Dh is "white" so there you go.
Her first and middle names go so well together!
post #12 of 57
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My children defintiely have arab names. I am Nicaraguan/ everything else and my dh is Tunisian. We are muslim so I wanted my kids to have beautiful arab names. My son has my husbands first name as his middle. It was actually supposed to be his first but I changed my mind when I was filling out the birth certificate. And my daughter's name translate to jasmine,beauty of the night. Since she was born at night and I love the name. Her names have songs in my husbands country, so that's a bonus. And my son has a bunch of stores and famous people to relate to.
I love all the variations on Jasmine. My BIL named his daughter Yasmeen.
post #13 of 57
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two girls DH is Lebanese, I'm American

DH is a big duran duran fan and I'm a hippie chick, so he picked our DD#1's name and I picked her middle name, I would not budge on my girl(s) having a boys middle name, however, when we register the girls in Lebanon, they will have Dad's first name as their middle name there so DD#1 is Rio Rayne (pronounced 'rain')... I love her name, I had no problem with the name Rio, however, in Lebanon many felt the need to correct us stating that a girl cannot have a Spanish name ending in 'o' and when we would say her name is Rio they would answer, "oh, you can't have a girl's name ending in 'o', so you mean her name is "Ria"... eventually my DH gave up on arguing and when we take her there to visit she can be the one to tell people off.

DD#2: I really wanted to have another 3 letter name, but the Arabic names didn't do it for me or my husband. I really love the name Kai which is Hawaiian for ocean and I thought it would be really cool to have a river and an ocean, but DH said that Kai was a boys name and not that pretty. He brought up "Yasmine"... I wasn't too thrilled with it and I didn't think it matched "Rio"... I didn't think it was that unique. Then one day we were watching the today show and miss universe from Japan was on and her name was Riyo (pronounced 'Rio') and she said that Riyo in Japanese means 'jasmine' so I was sold, both of my girls names mean 'jasmine' one in Japanese and one in Arabic. But we didn't want people to pronounce it "American" we wanted it to be pronounced "Yesmeen" so that's how we spell it. Her name is Yesmeen Sky. I picked her middle name too LOL

so in America, my girls are named Rio Rayne and Yesmeen Sky and in Lebanon their names are Rio Najib and Yesmeen Najib.

If we have a boy, it's a no brainer, he would get FIL's name.
I love Duran Duran, too. And I love your daughters' cool, hippie names! I hadn't thought about what will happen when we register our children in Lebanon. We haven't done it yet . I'm guessing they'll have to drop their middle names, too. Oh, well.
post #14 of 57
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We tried to choose names that were easy for Americans to pronounce, but we're also definitely Arabic (or both). So we ended up with Sami (boy), Ali (boy), and Sara (girl). All three kids have DH's name as middle name, which is a pet peeve of mine... especially for Sara.
Ditto. My DS's name is Laith and he has DH's name as his middle name, Hamza, as will any other children we are blessed with. I did talk to DH and told him that I want my daughter to have an actual middle name, so I am hoping that if some day we have a girl (inshallah) that I can give her a middle name as well as my husbands name.
DS was originally going to be Zekeriah, but DH didn't want Americans to pronounce it Zackariah or shorten it to Zack, so we finally changed it to Laith.
DH won't really discuss names ahead of time...with DS, we did talk about it, but it was usually very briefly...and he refuses to talk about names of children to come...I think part of that is b/c we lost our first child, who we thought was a girl, and during the pregnancy (we lost her at 12 wks) we 'named' her Ayah...which, DH would like to use again for a girl...
post #15 of 57
not arabic, but thought i would chime in anyway...
i am armenian and my dh is jewish so the name we chose for our ds is Ari... which has armenian, hebrew and greek roots. and yesterday a friend told me that her old boyfriend who is persian is also named Ari
post #16 of 57
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Her first and middle names go so well together!
Thank you!
we think so too
post #17 of 57
Speaking of male (after the dad) middle names, I have it too. It doesn't really bother me but it is a hot topic for small talk.
post #18 of 57
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Speaking of male (after the dad) middle names, I have it too. It doesn't really bother me but it is a hot topic for small talk.
I have many friends who have it, too! And really it rarely comes up. Most of them don't really use the name except as a way of explaining which family they're from during introductions... and on official documents some of them shorten it to an initial rather than using the whole name.

But I guess if you're not used to it, and you're from a culture where middle names are as important as first names, it can feel odd to give your daughter a male middle name. I think if it had been super important to DH, I would have gone for it, but he didn't put up too much of a fight, once we agreed to three names on the birth certificates.

I wonder how many Arab moms married to non-Arab men give their daughters their husband's middle names. I'm imagining a hypothetical Amira Derek, or Yasmeen Jason.
post #19 of 57
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I have many friends who have it, too! And really it rarely comes up. Most of them don't really use the name except as a way of explaining which family they're from during introductions... and on official documents some of them shorten it to an initial rather than using the whole name.
Growing up with a male middle name (realistically a gender ambiguous middle name, but in my area male) I was definitely self-conscious about it, but I was the sort of kid to be self-conscious about everything, and as an adult I just don't care.

Though as I think I had once mentioned in another thread on the subject, when we settled on our own little cross-cultural naming convention we decided to give our kids both my husband's first and second names as dual middle names so that they would share a last name with their father as per the american norm. I didn't really want to be always answering whether our kids were adopted, etc, that they didn't have either of our last names. But that means my poor daughter has to contend with "Mahmoud Mohamed" as a middle name. All I can say is that if we remain in the U.S. I hope she's a less self-conscious kid than me.
post #20 of 57
this is fun.
my dh is from afghanistan, i am irish, welsh, german,?? anyways, it was fun to find names that appealed first to us, and also to both sides of the family as well as reflected there cultural background. we ended up with:
Asja Juliet
Jovan Cricket
Nelo Dew
Opal Elizabeth


I would love to try to post pictures, but I am a bit spazy when it comes to technology.
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