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(x-posted in learning outside the home)

My son is in ps, but for a variety of reasons (explained below) I am seeking resources of games/drills/etc that he can do online during school time. I thought that the homeschooling crowd would probably be the ones who would know the most about those.

The short version is that I am looking for online resources--games, activities, or things that can be printed off and used pretty much independently by a student in the classroom who is just not at the same level as everyone else there.

Here's the more complete version--we live in tiny (100ppl) rural town in Alaska. DH is the secondary teacher (grades 6-12, he has 9 students) and then there is an elementary teacher who has 5 students--it just so happens that 4 of the students are in 2nd grade, and my DS is a gifted 3rd grader. She teaches them all together at one level, which is (obviously) totally inappropriate for DS. He was woefully under-stimulated last year, to the degree that I wanted to pull him out this year. Unfortunately, tiny district that it is, the elementary teacher also happens to be the superintendent, so DS's teacher is also DH's boss...so we can't pull out our son because that jeopardizes DH's job, and he needs to keep this job one more year. (We are hoping/planning to move next year but that's a whole other story.) Anyway, for political reasons, we have to keep DS in school.
We have spoken with the teacher about better stimulating DS, and it has become clear that she is a moron. I mean that in a very literal way--she's incompetent on multiple fronts. Another 'joy' of this tiny school is that they take who they can get...she's willing to be here long-term, so they keep her even though her license has expired and she's twice last year failed the competency test to re-certify. But of course we can't just say "the reason our son isn't doing much in your class is that you're too dumb to properly stimulate our gifted child"...and there are no other teachers...so we have been working on another solution.
My son is in 3rd grade, although he's ahead in math and a little behind in writing (reading is ok, but he fights writing). He's a very sharp kid, but gets lazy if he's not appropriately stimulated (ie, if it's boring he doesn't want to bother, if it's too hard he'll refuse to try). I am working with him on the attitude side (encouraging him to do his work regardless--even if it's boring, giving it a try--even if it's hard). We have found though that when we give him activities of the right level, his interest levels are high and there is no problem with him focusing. So our solution has been to help the teacher have more level-appropriate things for him.
This teacher really likes to rely on the internet. I have subbed for her a few times (I'm also a certified teacher, though I stay home since having kids), and I found that she likes to print off probably at least 1/3 of her curriculum. In other words, she would rather not prepare lessons herself, but prefers to use things others have already made. This makes a unique situation--we've realized that if we can point her to a lot of resources that are appropriate for our DS, she will probably use them (happy to not have to do it herself) and he should have a much better year.
SO, if anyone can recommend websites that have things available (not curriculum to purchase, but just things that are already available online) I would sure appreciate it! I've been googling and found some really neat things already, so I know there's good stuff out there.
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Originally Posted by brightonwoman View Post
The short version is that I am looking for online resources--games, activities, or things that can be printed off and used pretty much independently by a student in the classroom who is just not at the same level as everyone else there.
Okay, I'll go for the short version, because I'm in the middle of a bunch of stuff here today . Take a look through my (non-commercial) Homeschooling Gateway links. They're loosely organized by "subject," and annotated - I avoided loud, glitzy sites full of useless drill, so he'll be able to find lots of things he'll enjoy. I'm in the middle of a site remodel, so meanwhile, you'll have to scroll down the page past the article box to get to the website links on the math page.

I haven't slowed down to read through the post in its entirety, but I'll just caution you, though, not to urge him to do things after school unless he's really wanting to - a full day of school can make for a very real need to have as much time as possible to oneself.

OH! One more thing - you could really get some great ideas from a book called Guerrilla Learning: How to Give Your Kids a Real Education With or Without School. Grace Llewellyn, Amy Silver.

Best of luck with it all. - Lillian

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i could be totally wrong, but i *think* i recently read that alaska is like one of the best places to homeschool. there are tons of charter schools to choose from with very laid back rules & you get a ton of funds to spend on the curriculum of your choice and additional activites, etc. it may even be that for homeschoolers in general & not just charters....i can't remember the details of (since i live in SC -lol) but in your shoes, i'd be looking for a way to pull ds out to homeschool. i understand you're worried about dh's job....but you don't have to say you hate the school and the teacher's a moron....just say you have an amazing opportunity to work with him at hime, etc. why would that be bad???
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Lillian--thank you, I'll definitely spend some time in those sites! And these are not for after-school activities (although I'll certainly let him play there if he wants!) This is actually for in-school. His teacher likes to rely on others (ie, internet) to teach for her, so I'm hoping that by providing some resources at the appropriate level it will help.

elizawill--I would LOVE to homeschool, and DH is not opposed...except for the little issue of office politics. When the teacher in town pulls his own kid out of school it says something about the teacher's opinion of that other teacher...and when that other teacher happens to also be DH's boss...well, pulling out DS could mean DH getting fired and/or the school closing (they are dangerously close to dropping under minimimum enrollment required to stay open). So, for political reasons, we feel we cannot pull DS out. We plan to move next year so this is a short-term issue, but for this one year we've got to make something work. We considered doing halftime HS but it didn't really solve the problem of his teacher being a moron, and it still raises the all the issues of pulling him completely...I still have mixed feelings about it (I was really pulling for doing half time) but DH feels strongly, and I think he's right that his job is somewhat on the line here.
just one year...just one year... I don't think DS will be scarred by it or anything, nor do I consider 3rd grade a terribly huge deal if he doesn't do much...I just don't want to see him bored nor having his time wasted.
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Can't you pull the "It's not you, it's him" line with the teacher?
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Can't you pull the "It's not you, it's him" line with the teacher?
I'm willing to do that...DH is not.
Last spring I thought that over the summer icould get DH on board with half time, but it didn't work, and if I can't get him on board I really don't see it happening. SO I've accepted that DS is going to be going to school...and the next question is how to make the best of that...
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