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So far just DH knows. I plan on telling my one sister very soon as we are pretty close and I think she would be hurt that I didn't tell her sooner if I waited. But I the 'who we tell and when' is going to be more complicated than I thought. We are supposed to go see a friend's band this weekend. The place they are playing is very smoky. I don't want to go because of that but I think she'll be hurt if I don't - and while I don't want to tell that I'm pregnant this early, I can't think of another excuse for not going that doesn't sound like a copout.

DH's grandma is in a nursing home and kind of iffy in the health department. We want to make sure she knows about the pregnancy while she's still with us but I was really hoping to wait a while to tell our families. Mostly because we weren't actively TTC and while we are really excited about the pregnancy, I'm just not ready to answer to answer anyone's questions yet. I'm a pretty private person in general and the thought of people asking me how I'm feeling, what are we going to do about daycare, what are we naming the child, etc, makes my head hurt.

Work won't know until 12 weeks at least. But I think my eating every two hours and my new breasts may give it away sooner!