Oh, I didn't mean that you would send your friends there rather than talk with them, I was saying that imo if you made the color scheme a bit more casual and inviting that people would feel more welcome and comfortable reading and exploring the information you have posted. To me the dark red and gray, when paired with this topic, has a more radical/violent feel than beige and ivy green just for an example - just my opinion, and even though circ is a violent action if your point is to educate people then you want them to feel drawn into the site for contemplation. This could just be my color preferences coming through, but I know that in the marketing world you use bold colors for a big one-off statement and more soothing colors for a longer in-depth message. There really is no way to appeal to everyone with color though, so if you love it then I say keep it because it is your creation and should speak of and to you!
I was able to read through more of the site and the it looks like lots of good info and links and is pretty logically laid-out. Not sure what the pps meant exactly but the issue of confusion about the restoration part may have to do with the fact that the last couple of paragraphs from, "Many doctors are not adequately educated about the normal, intact penis..." to the end seem to be under the restoration heading but don't really have to do with restoration. Maybe move them to a more appropriate heading or give them their own heading?
Otherwise it really does look like you are doing a great job, and a great service!