might it not be more appropriate for you to simply provide information to them and suggest they visit here? You could say something like:
The major reasons to leave Toby's penis normal are as foloows:
The child has a legal right to bodily integrity. Upon reaching adulthood, the child may have a right to sue to recover damages for injuries or unnecessary surgery sustained in childhood.
The parent must ethically and legally make decisions for the child based solely on the best interests of the child.
There is absolutely no reason why circumcision can not be done later, when the child is old enough to make a legally informed decision. Potentially this causes less harm to sexual function and appearance, based upon typical growth patterns and the Doctor's ability to predict outcomes before sexual maturity.
The core issue is that it isn't your husband's penis. It's your son's penis. And your son is the person who has the right to decide how he wants his penis to look, function and feel. Not you, your husband, your relatives, or the Doctors. A newborn baby would never choose to have unnecessary surgery on himself.
