Originally Posted by Belle
No, not true. If you look up her head circumference size on one of those charts it was off the chart.
Thats EXACTLY what she just said. the chart does not go up to the "120th" percentile..it doesn't EXIST! your child was OFF the chart. the correct way to say it is that your child was 20% bigger than the TOP of the chart.
anyway...to add in my vote, many, MANY very bad tears internally and externally, in all directions, front back and sideways, including perineal, labial, urethral and clitoral tears. Both times. Both unassisted. Both sucked.
My body "chose" its position and pushed on it's own both times..both times i labored in water and did numerous other things to try and prevent tears. I just tear. My skin has *zero* stretch to it.
This last time, i very nearly tore into the rectum, but just *barely* didn't..the wall is Paper-thin in one place though......my bladder and uterus are prolapsed, because they fell down when everything tore and there is nothing left to hold them up.