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post #1 of 19
Thread Starter 
Here to growl about my family doctor.

At my last visit, I noticed once again that the walls of the doc's waiting room and exam rooms are covered with posters and ads for formula, along with the usual posters for healthy diet and such. There was not a single item relating to breastfeeding. After my checkup, I asked about having BF materials placed in the office. Doc replied that of course BF was recommended, and said that, if I wanted to donate some BF posters or leaflets, she would make them available. I was hoping she would obtain some herself, but okay. I ordered some lovely posters from INFACT and had them laminated. I ordered a couple hundred or so pamphlets from INFACT and some others from LaLeche League. I bundled them together and brought them to the office. The receptionist thanked me and said she was sure the doctor would appreciate them.

A month later, my DD has an appointment with the same doc for a well-baby check for her four month old, and asks me to go along. There are some new formula posters on the wall, but no sign of the items I had brought in.
In the exam room, baby was weighed and checked, and in the course of a five to ten minute visit DD was asked five times if she had concerns about lack of milk and wanted to switch to formula. She was told twice that breast milk starts to "dry up" after four months or so and babies start to lose weight at that point. The doc commented that with formula you can see how much the baby is getting, but the problem with breast milk is you can never be sure the baby is getting enough. (Incidentally, my grandchild is in the 95th percentile for weight and looks like a sumo wrestler.) Doc concluded the visit by recommending that DD bring baby back in a few weeks to make sure she is adequately nourished and does not need supplementation. DD declined.

Well, that explains why the nursing posters are not in evidence!

I went to the receptionist on the way out, and asked if I could have my BF materials back. I thought they may as well go where they will be used. She said if the doctor had not thrown them out, she will look for them and get back to me.

Just wanted to share the joy.
post #2 of 19
wow.
that is so sad, and I'm sorry that your posters and brochures were not put out for moms who may be needing them!!
HUGS!
post #3 of 19
Can this doc be reported for not complying with the suggested/encouraging moms to bd at least one yr? What an UAV.
post #4 of 19
Wow. Sad.
post #5 of 19
Vote with your wallet. Switch doctors. Send a letter informing her why. And copy the local state medical board. Please!
post #6 of 19
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Originally Posted by meganmarie View Post
Vote with your wallet. Switch doctors. Send a letter informing her why. And copy the local state medical board. Please!
post #7 of 19
that is just vile!
i wonder if lodging a complaint with the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada would result in anything

also, some drs will have a waitlist even if they aren't taking new patients. i am in ottawa, and waitlisted to get a dr for myself and my son at the unicef baby friendly clinic. not a single formula ad, and a lactation consultant on site for any patients at the clinic. i asked about a waitlist since on the college's website it said she wasn't accepting new patients...but it can happen - and did for us!

my son's previous pediatrician said breastmilk was maybe good for gi tract issues after 6mths and that's it, and that's when i decided to find my son a doctor that valued mama's milk. the ped seemed to endorse breastfeeding but obviously didn't value it after 6mths.
post #8 of 19
Wow, that is so blatantly awful. Why even be a doctor if you don't care at all about the health of the children you are seeing?
I'm hoping you all can start seeing a new doctor.
post #9 of 19
Woah. That is just awful. I would send her a very carefully written letter listing the many reasons why she wouldn't be my family doctor anymore.
post #10 of 19
How sad. I would have been really disappointed as well.

It sounds like she told you to bring the pro breastfeeding stuff to her office under the assumption that you wouldn't actually do it.
post #11 of 19
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Originally Posted by meganmarie View Post
Vote with your wallet. Switch doctors. Send a letter informing her why. And copy the local state medical board. Please!
Unfortunately it looks like the OP is in Canada and our health care is government provided. In addition to that, there are many people who do not have a family doctor and the wait lists for one can be huge (if they offer one at all). Our ERs are bogged down by people with sniffles and sneezes who should not be there but have nowhere else to turn if they want to see a doctor

OP - Just curious where you are in Canada... I wonder if anything could be done if you tried contacting Jack Newman and enlisted his help (not that he isn't busy enough). What your GP is doing is against the WHO code and something needs to be done about it. How very sad for all those mamas that do go to see her and are having their BF relationships derailed with bogus information!

ETA - NM I looked back at your posts and I know where you are located. Is your area short on family doctors too?

LP
post #12 of 19
Quoting my dh:
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That doctor should go to jail.
Couldn't have said it better myself!
post #13 of 19
so not only is every patient out the education/infornation/suport but you are actually out $$$ if they got trashed!?!?!?

i would want to be re-imbursed
post #14 of 19
wow..thats just soo horrible
post #15 of 19
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Originally Posted by hellyaellen View Post
i would want to be re-imbursed
Yeah that. If they can't find the materials say "That's ok. They cost $X plus shipping and handling. You can just apply that towards my bill since I won't be returning any time soon."

*wry grin*
post #16 of 19
How infuriating!


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Originally Posted by mamabadger View Post
She was told twice that breast milk starts to "dry up" after four months or so and babies start to lose weight at that point. The doc commented that with formula you can see how much the baby is getting, but the problem with breast milk is you can never be sure the baby is getting enough.
Ugghhh, how our mothers and grandmothers ever manage to keep us alive without formula?
post #17 of 19
Thread Starter 
Thanks for the comments and suggestions. I am in Windsor, and looking for the best agency to file a complaint with.
post #18 of 19
Wow. that is disgusting, but not surprising. When ds was a week old I had to see a pediatrician on call about an unrelated matter and was told that formula is better as they can see waht baby is getting, and that if my baby was wanting to eat more often than every four hours then he was clearly not getting enough milk and that I should supplement with formula. I argued with him and he was not impressed, lol, but I never got his name, wish I could've reported him
post #19 of 19


Sounds like a reportable professional offense to me...but I'm in the US. I wonder if Janice in Canada (MDC user) would have any good advice?
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