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Poll Results: How long did you wait to DTD postpartum

  • 51% (29)
    Still waiting. . .
  • 0% (0)
    less than a week
  • 7% (4)
    1-2 weeks
  • 19% (11)
    2-3 weeks
  • 3% (2)
    3-4 weeks
  • 17% (10)
    4 + weeks
56 Total Votes  
post #21 of 23
I think it was about late 3 weeks? I can't really remember it seems so long ago.

I didn't have any tearing.

Just a little soreness but nothing bad and it didn't last very long.

I felt great about it. It was very nice.

Nope, I think we were ready. I find it hard to "keep it up" though with a toddler and infant. We can't get them both to bed before I am exhausted and then it is hard to find a space without worrying about the baby.
post #22 of 23
Babyboy turned 11 weeks old today and our DTD has decreased. We're lucky if we even do it once a week now. We were just screwing like rabbits now we're lucky if we can. He has impeccable timing, that child of mine. He knows just when daddy has rolled over to start crying in his crib, want to be picked up and played with. I swear he does it on purpose. LOL. Oh, how I miss being spooned. What was once my cuddle time has turned into family cuddle time. Geez! LOL
post #23 of 23
We waited for five weeks.

I had a small tear that heals really fast, but I had been bleeding for a couple weeks. I wanted everything down there to feel normal again before we started DTD.
Our first time, it hurt. And I really wasn't into it, because the baby was sleeping in the crib attached to the side of the bed, so I couldn't concentrate on DH. Every sound or movement that Sara made would distract me, so foreplay was pretty pointless. Emotionally, I felt okay. I honestly felt like, "Oh, I don't ever want to do that again if it's going to be like that."

The second time was similar. I was just doing it because I knew that DH really wanted to (I normally want to, but I have to be in the right mood). He was really sweet and really tried to get me into it, but it just wasn't happening for me. And damn did it hurt after - I think it hurt worse than when I lost my virginity:

This last time was different. Sara was sleeping in her cradle in the other room, DH really courted me the entire day with kisses and little massages and all the stuff he does on "special occasions". So by the evening, I was in a great mood. Foreplay took forever, and I didn't hurt at all afterwards. I'm hoping that our sex life will get even better once Sara can go to Grandma's for an evening, so I don't have to worry at all about being interrupted...

Hope eveyone else has a better go of it than me...
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