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post #1 of 16
Thread Starter 
Hi there!

DH is really excited about a potential job in San Francisco (North Beach area). I'm kinda panicking as I don't know much about the areas around the city. We'd be looking for a 4-bedroom house in a good school district (even though we consider ourselves unschoolers). I'd also love to have a little land as that's something we don't have now. Any ideas? Our budget is $900k.

Thanks!

Wendy
post #2 of 16
I'm not sure about school districts (we're home/unschoolers too!), but you might be able to find something close to your price range...I'm not sure about 4 bedrooms but I know the homes I've seen for sale lately are at least close to that price range. It's not a bad commute from here to anywhere else in the city. And most areas are close to Golden Gate Park. We've lived in the Sunset for over 4 years, I can give you more info if you want to email me (lightheartedmom@gmail.com).
There are definitely some downsides to living in SF, but there are lots of cool things about it too.
Good luck!
post #3 of 16
Thread Starter 
Thanks for replying. I should have been more specific; we would probably be looking at the suburbs. East Bay? What areas do you mamas like? I wouldn't want DH's commute to be too long as he works from home now and gets more quality time with the kids. Also, are there any coastal areas worth checking out that aren't too far away?

Thanks so much!

Wendy
post #4 of 16
Thread Starter 
Anyone else?
post #5 of 16
i know san jose is an option, but it is a little far from the city, about 30-45min. or 2 hours on the bart.

i personally like san jo, but a lot of people dont, they have nice houses with yards there and there is good food and lots of home schoolers. if i were to move to the bay (which almost happened last year) i would choose san jose.
post #6 of 16
We loved living near the berkeley/ oakland border. Check out the Berkeley parents network for more info on east bay neighborhoods.
post #7 of 16
MY DH commutes to the city, a little farther than n beach actually and we live in Walnut Creek. Great school districts and you can probably find something nice in your price range. We like it here a lot.

Dh avoids traffic most days and its about a 45 minute commute for him. It would be about 30 min without traffic to get to north beach.

Also on the days that DH leaves during traffic times he picks up commuters (carpoolers, there is a specific spot where you pick them up and drop them off its not like you have to plan it and its different people every day) Carpooling saves a lot of time and the bridge toll.
post #8 of 16
We live in Albany and love it. Apparently it is also one of the best school districts in the state

Not sure about housing prices, though, as we rent.
post #9 of 16
Right now, that budget would allow you to buy in almost any area around here.

What I would look into is HOW he's going to commute to N. Beach. I'm not that familiar with that part of the city because it's not that easy to get to on public transportation. Honestly, we live in Oakland, and have been to the city less than a dozen times in 6 years because of the traffic. If we can't get somewhere via BART or the ferry (with a decent walk), we don't go to the city, period. I haven't driven to the city since I moved here.

I'd start working backwards, look up where he'll be working, find the bus routes to the BART, then start looking at the BART routes, and find somewhere along there. If there's not an easy bus route to BART, is there an easy bus route to the ferry (this limits your options, but is still better than driving everyday, IMO).

And then it depends on what you're looking for. "Cheap" real estate is all over the place around here. To get a little land though, you need to go through the Caldecott tunnel for the most part. Lafayette, Orinda, Canyon area, or even further out to Danville, Walnut Creek and the outlying areas. My contact with those areas have been fairly limited to people I worked with when I worked out there, but crunchiness was not really common that I found. For lots of crunchy, you'd want to stay closer in, Alameda, Berkeley or SF itself.

Another thing to consider though is earthquakes. While I would love to live in Alameda in theory, the fact that it is mostly built on landfill and therefore unstable in a big quake means I'll drool from our bedrock foundation in Oakland.

Hope some of that helps.
post #10 of 16
Check out Marin as well, maybe Fairfax, Woodacre, San Anselmo, or places like that!
post #11 of 16
I'd check out the north bay if you don't mind NOT having BART service (Marin & Sonoma counties, specifically). It's beautiful and Sonoma county is particularly crunchy in nature.
post #12 of 16
Thread Starter 
Thank you all so much! You've given us a lot to think about.
post #13 of 16
Marin has great schools and open spaces and beautiful towns, (although my best friend from high school who still lives there says the number of crunchy people living off trust funds can get tiresome). I would move to Mill Valley if I had the money. Mill Valley is a fairly close commute since it is north of the City and North Beach is in the sort of northeast corner. With the falling prices it may actually be in that price range now. There are commuter buses that go over the bridge to SF financial district - and ferries that run from Larkspur and Sausalito to the ferry building in SF. see goldengatetransit.org . Both are a mile and a half or two miles from North Beach so it partly depends on where in North Beach he would be working.

Berkeley has BART right into the City, (although BART goes nowhere near North Beach). Berkeley also has great schools from what I've heard, although I have no personal experience with them.

As far as coastal areas to check out, West Marin - Muir Beach and Point Reyes National Seashore are both beautiful. I don't know if you mean living there though, Muir Beach is an okay commute to the city but high price-wise. Living there is foggy and cold all summer (I lived there for five years) Point Reyes would be too far to commute. Good luck. I'm envious, it's a beautiful area overall.
post #14 of 16
If you want East Bay, with good public school districts, look in Lafayette, Moraga, Orinda and Walnut Creek.

If you want good school districts, avoid Berkeley, Oakland, and anything zoned for the Mt. Diablo School district.
post #15 of 16

i'm in search of info too...

hey mamas

my dh is looking for a new job and lots are popping up in the bay area...i'm a little overwhelmed, as I've only lived in the southeast us of a and have no clue where to start thinking of living out there

i'm in atlanta now..home of urban sprawl, air pollution, conservatism, and TRAFFIC....so i want to be near my dh's work but also in a safe area.. preferably close to some woods/hiking and defnitely walkable/bikable....he'll probably be in the city....i also unschool and really would love to live in a crunchy community as i am very tired of doing it alone down here in the south...i also am into free schooling/sudbury valley....i noticed concord has a sudbury school...any experience w/ it...would the commute be awful? is BART an option from there?

any thoughts greatly appreciated
post #16 of 16

Are you still looking?

You may want to consider the Peninsula/South Bay, which the area just south of San Francisco. I don't recommend going any more south than Palo Alto (home to Stanford University), as the commute will suck. Cal-Train runs to the city, and from there you can walk or take one of the many buses to North Beach (which is what I did for my last job -- also in North Beach). If you live in the upper part of the peninsula, you can take BART, which is the light-rail system that runs all over a good chunk of the Bay Area (but does NOT run to San Jose as a previous poster stated). I don't recommend driving on 101 during commute hours. Traffic just kills.

All in all, pretty nice areas in the Peninsula/South Bay.
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