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post #1 of 15
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My dh and I are both a bit overweight and would love to slim down. But we've never dieted before....and really don't like the idea of dieting...so we'd love to learn some strategies for losing and keeping off the weight without resorting to some fad diet. I'm sure we should exercise more, if only we could find the time (I walk a lot and dh bikes most days). We eat healthy, organic foods....but maybe we eat too much whole-fat dairy. Maybe too many carbs? I honestly don't know. I am breastfeeding my 15-m.o. still and I figure the fats that I eat are good for her, but since those fats seem to be piling up on my belly, maybe I should cut down a bit?

Please, share your ideas (and book recommendations?) for healthy eating that will help us stay fit!
post #2 of 15
I'm currently doing very well on a low-carb diet. I aim for about 30g of carbs per day. I often find myself going over that, but never over 70g per day, and as a result the weight isnt' coming off as fast as I'd like- but I am sucessfully maintaining a 20 lb weight loss.

My 13yo is currently doing very well on a moderate carb diet- she's lost about 7 lbs in the past 2 months and is now at a very healthy weight for her. She doesn't count carbs but she doesn't eat very many "high carb foods" because she feels bloated and uncomfortable when she does. She eats about 2-3 servings of grains per day, and doesn't worry about carbs in dairy products or fruits. She doesn't drink soda or presweetened beverages or eat candy, and limits sugar or honey to 2-3 teaspoons per day in coffee or hot cocoa, and doesn't have those every day. We only have cake or cookies in the house about once a week, so she has about 2 servings of these kinds of sweets per week.

She used to eat lowfat dairy because she had a hard time with portion control; she'd eat the whole bowl whether she was full or not, so the lower fat products made sense for her. Meanwhile, I had to keep buying highfat yogurt for DD2 because she WOULD stop when she was full; either a cup of the full fat stuff or 3 cups of lowfat! I no longer buy lowfat dairy for anybody in the house, now that DD1 has gotten better at portion control. Yogurt and fruit make a meal for her now that she's cut back on the grain portions.

In the past, I've lost weight through mindful eating (stopping when I'm full) and de-emphasizing carbs. Even when I wasn't counting carbs, I was still reducing them by making sure I had ample fat and protien and stopping when I was full. Low fat diets always seem to lead to weight gain for me, as I won't feel full without enough fat and then I'll eat larger portions and more frequently. In fact, one of the first changes I've made when I noticed the weight creeping back on was to add fat to my foods; this enables me to eat less and lose weight. Cutting way back on the carbs was the main thing that's worked for me though; I'm lighter now than I've been since DD2 was born.

Have you actually gained weight since your daughter was born, or are you just having a hard time losing weight from before her birth?
post #3 of 15
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I'm currently doing very well on a low-carb diet. I aim for about 30g of carbs per day.
How do you count carbs? Do you have a chart for each day, and fill in the amounts from the nutrition info on food packages? Is it tedious for you?

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She doesn't count carbs but she doesn't eat very many "high carb foods" because she feels bloated and uncomfortable when she does.
What are high carb foods? Would pasta qualify? I eat a lot of pasta and bread.

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In the past, I've lost weight through mindful eating (stopping when I'm full)...
That's such a good idea. I will work on that. I grew up in a large family and always felt competitive about food...so I shovel it in fast and fill myself way too full. But food is no longer a scarcity, so I need to remind myself that I can always have more later if I'm still hungry.

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Have you actually gained weight since your daughter was born, or are you just having a hard time losing weight from before her birth?
I don't think I've gained more weight since her birth. I don't actually own a scale, but I'm probably about 5 lbs over prepreg weight (which was already a little high), and I had to go up a size in pants to accommodate my thick waist.
post #4 of 15
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I just noticed that this post got moved to fitness and weight management. I didn't even know this forum existed - thanks for cluing me in!!
post #5 of 15

For me....

For me, not eating late at night after dinner was when I starting loosing weight with out much effort. I don't know if it's an issue for you, though, but it made a huge difference for me.
post #6 of 15
I started tracking my food intake... I've used both www.sparkpeople.com and www.thedailyplate.com (my fave of teh 2)

It was very eyeopening to me to see how much fat and calories I was consuming, a lot coming from dairy. along with fat and calories, It also will tell you how many grams of carbs and protein that you are eating. I think it can track fiber too.

FWIR, you can enter in your height, weight, activity level, adn it will recommend raange of each component for you to eat.

I don;t track every day, but I like to every once in a while to keep myself on track. HTH
post #7 of 15
I like The Best Life Diet. It's the one Oprah was on. I don't really like his super gradual approach and the not so healthy product endorsements but I do like the guiding principles. Many of the meals he suggests are delicious, have lots of fiber, are easy to make, and are the kind of thing I make anyway. There are a lot of really common sense principles to the diet but they're all put together in a really digestible and motivating way. It's not low carb--it's big on good carbs. I like his discussion of different activity levels and what to expect at the beginning of the weight loss plan.
post #8 of 15
I haven't lost much, but I think I am doing good so far. I count calories (total eye opener!), watch portion sizes, try to do something active everyday, and get 35 g of fiber. I was eating a pitiful amount of fiber--way under 20grms so that has definitely improved with tracking foods. I try to measure out water too--lots of times I will eat when I am actually thirsty. I drink 12 cups a day! I love calorie counting because you can save 200 calories a day for a snack like chocolate and still not blow your progress too much.
post #9 of 15
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Thanks for all your good ideas! I think that counting calories and carbs is going to be too difficult for me (at least, I'm not quite motivated enough yet), but I'm definitely going to work on reducing my carb and calorie intake in general. Of course, I say this after eating pancakes and maple syrup for breakfast. Hmm, easier said than done. At least for dinner last night I resisted stuffing myself full. I'm heading out for a walk now to burn off these pancakes! Today I'll check out those books and websites too.
post #10 of 15
I second Sparkpeople.com! I lost 18 pounds on my own struggling and working out a ton. I lost twenty two more with more ease using spark. Logging calories in and calories out is the key. Spark will also take into account that you are breastfeeding. I really like it that you start out slow. You start with three small goals based on what you and the program think you need. You work up from there to tracking calories and then keeping within range. They also help you figure out why over eat and what. They have a meal plan too if your like me and you need ideas on what to eat. It helped me a lot! Did I mention it's free? I can't sing its praises enough. I feel like I got a new lease on life because of spark. I went from a size 16 to 10!
post #11 of 15
This caught my eye because I am on my first 'diet' ever. I put diet in quotes because I am not really counting anything or avoiding any particular food. Here is my version of a 'diet':

-I eat what have always eaten at each meal/snack (same foods), but try to eat somewhat less than what I typically eat. I try to decide this before the meal. ("I am going to eat only two pieces of chicken instead of three, and first I am going to eat the rest of the steamed broccoli. Then I can have some whole wheat couscous. No seconds tonight.")

-I eat pretty much all whole grains: bread, pasta, rice, etc. and make sure I get at least 3 servings of vegetables per day.

-I eat my high fiber/high protein cereal every morning with fruit and low fat yogurt.

-I drink nothing but water. This is easy because I don't like soda, and there are things I'd rather have other than juice, etc.

-There is no ice cream in the house, nor potato chips, or most other processed snack foods. (There is chocolate, pita chips, low fat whole grain pretzels, a variet of granola bars, fruit, etc.) I occasionally bake cookies, which is very dangerous. I stopped baking fruit crisps because I had no willpower around the darn things. (I eat the fresh farmer's market fruit instead)

-I am getting used to feeling vaguely hungry periodically throughout the day. (Like right now, although I was at a barbecue an hour ago and ate a hamburger, potatochips, various salads, and two small brownies. Ack! How on Earth can I still be hungry????) It's like a challenge: can I handle this hungry feeling, or do I really need to eat something? Can I drink some water, wait 10 minutes, and eat if I am still hungry then?

-I try to go to bed earlier so that I won't be awake when my stomach empties from dinner and suddenly I feel the need to eat something else.

-When I decide I need to eat something, I have certain "Go To" foods on hand that I can eat without derailing everything, things like cut up carrots/cucumbers w/hummus, and a certain granola bar with chocolate coating that is really filling and also hits my chocolate craving. Oh, and apples are nice and filling.

-I've stopped mindlessly eating off my children's plates after they finish eating and leave 'good stuff' behind.

-Similarly, I ask, "Is this really worth it?" for every 'decadent' food I encounter. Like if there are store bought cookies served somewhere, well, I already know what they taste like and they aren't that great, so I'm going to pass on them and eat something I really enjoy when I get home, like a buttery grilled cheese sandwich. MMmmmmm <--that just popped in my head! I would share it with my kids to reduce the amount I ate of the sandwich, too.

-York Peppermint Patties. I eat at least one to three of these almost every day. The strong peppermint/chocolate taste makes it feel like I am eating something much larger. I take really small bites and try to make them last.

-I do high impact dance aerobics 3x per week (probably good for burning about 450 calories/hour) This is the same as I have always done, maybe I go a little more often now.

-I haven't noticed a change in my milk supply. DD is 2 and eats really well, so I decided to not worry about it and give food reduction a try.

-I weigh myself once a week, first thing in the morning.

I've lost almost 10 pounds in the past 3-4 weeks, and this is literally the first time I have ever consciously tried to lost weight. Sometimes I feel sad because I really love food and love to eat, but also I want to be in good health, look healthy, and have my clothes fit properly. I also want to prove to myself that I do in fact have some ability to self-regulate and be a better example to my kids.

Hmmmm. Must decide whether I really need to eat right now or not.... going to try the water trick first.
post #12 of 15
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Originally Posted by dflanag2 View Post
. Here is my version of a 'diet':.
Very nice list. Inspirational, and I will "steal" a few of your tips . Nice job!!!
post #13 of 15
Maybe instead of dieting at first just try changing your eating habits. Like if you love pancakes, try whole wheat with fresh berries on top, instead of white w/ syrup. Or have oatmeal instead. Instead of white pasta, try the white/wheat mixes, then when you like that move on to whole wheat pasta. Add veggies to your pasta sauce.
Like you i love bread. Seriously i could never do low carb. The only thing that has worked for me is to buy the rolls that are frozen that you can only cook one/ person at a time. I just cook 4, that way there are no extras for me to nibble on, because i know i will.
Keep track of your veggie intake and aim for 6-7 a day, same with fruit. When i lost weight after my son was born, i would keep a journal, and just track Fruits, veggies, dairy, protein and fiber. I found a website that said how much of each i should be getting and checked off a box each time i ate. I felt like i got a much wider variety of foods, and those helped keep me fuller so i didn't snack as much on crap. I did have 2 servings of fats/other that i included per day, that helped too.
post #14 of 15
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How do you count carbs? Do you have a chart for each day, and fill in the amounts from the nutrition info on food packages? Is it tedious for you?
I use www.fitday.com and I don't mind filling it in as I'm often on the computer anyway.
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What are high carb foods? Would pasta qualify? I eat a lot of pasta and bread.
Yup, bread and pastas qualify. I currently eat fewer than 4 servings of bread or pasta per week; I used to eat more than that per day.

If you're not ready to cut out starches completely, try having them with plenty of fat and protien so you fill up on fewer portions. If I serve pasta with just tomato sauce, I used to be able to eat 3 bowls full. If I served it with cream sauce and tuna fish, or with fatty meatballs in that tomato sauce, I could feel full after only one bowl.

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I don't think I've gained more weight since her birth. I don't actually own a scale, but I'm probably about 5 lbs over prepreg weight (which was already a little high), and I had to go up a size in pants to accommodate my thick waist.
Keep in mind that your body is going to shift after childbirth- even if you got down to "goal weight" you'd still have a bigger belly (and thus a thicker waist) than you did in high school. Your rib cage may be permenantly expanded one size from being "stretched out" in late pregnancy. If you had a vaginal birth, your hips are probably permenantly one size bigger just from the bones spreading out.

Try to keep those "mama body changes" separate from overall weight loss. I personally don't see those changes as a bad thing; I see them as proof that my body is maturing and I feel like I'm "more fully a woman" than I was before having kids, even if it is bringing my body further from the current "fashion ideal."
post #15 of 15
This is an awesome article: http://www.motherearthnews.com/Natur...m_source=iPost

I'd also really recommend reading Eat Fat Lose Fat by Dr. Mary Enig. It works amazingly well
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