First off, I have only known you a short while, and I think, illness or not, 85% or 100% your a pretty wonderful person.
Just so ya know I certainly was NOT talking about grammar mistakes, punctuation problems, or hard and fast English language rules. Frankly I probably wouldn't recognize them even if I saw them done wrong. While I consider myself a fairly intelligent person I do not have a college education and English frankly bored me to death. However with a mother that is an English major and a veteran teacher I had English drilled into my head all my life, she always taught me that the way you speak and write reflects upon how people view you, and if you want to be taken seriously you should know how to properly write and speak.
Honestly if you hadn't spoken up about your illness I never would have guessed or assumed there had been any problem in your past.
I don't think someone that has these errors is stupid, or uneducated even, I know people with Dr. in front of their name that can't spell or proof-read worth beans. And that is what it boils down to I guess, I don't spell all that well (never have) but I take the time to check my work. However I do understand that a lot of people don't have time to do this, I make it a priority because it bugs me so much.
I am sorry it does bug me, it wasn't my intention to hurt anyone or get anyone mad at each other, I just wanted to know if I am a freak for caring. I guess I might be, but I am surrounded by other freaks (in a totally GOOD way) too. That makes me feel better and points out something I need to work on in my personality. I don't want my kids fretting over their words, as long as they keep talking right?