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post #1 of 6
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So last night we get the billionth call asking if labor has begun or the baby is here yet. I've just stopped even answering the phone for most people (I love caller ID and the ignore button).

DH answered and it was his mom. She asked, like everyone else, that we call her when I go into labor. DH told her that when it happens he's going to call the midwife and then he's got to focus on me. That he won't be able to just get on the phone and start calling people.

So afterwards we were talking about it and how people just need to be patient and stuff. How we are going to have a lot on our minds and a lot to do and why do people expect that they have a right to be notified when I'm in labor or get a call immediately after the birth?

Do I sound "witchy"?

Anyway, DH had the best sum up statement:

"I'm not going to worry about everyone else. They've already had their chance and this moment with their own kids. This is our moment."
post #2 of 6
Oh how wonderful....he does get it...finally!
post #3 of 6
Yay for DH's who get it! :

I've never gotten why people expect that you'll have time to call and tell them you're in labour. I know they're just excited but what good will it do them, really, to know you're in labour? All that matters is that they're informed once the baby is born.
post #4 of 6
Yeah, your DH's got it! That's awesome.
post #5 of 6
I just keep reminding the people attending that i have a list... and the rest that they'll be notified at some point afterwards and not to worry. lol. So annoying though...
post #6 of 6
I would actually love if people were asking me... it would make me feel so much closer! Right now people keep telling me "oh you are not due for another week and its your first so most likely you will be late!"... am I the only one holding my breath?? lol!

Believe me... when I go into active labor.. I will definatly be calling everyone I know just out of excitement that its FINALLY here!
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