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post #101 of 655
10/3/08 at 4:27pm
since you asked, smartypants:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/22089658@N04/2741942336/

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post #102 of 655
10/3/08 at 6:02pm
gosh, I like your nice, orderly house, too, S&D...

jen who nosily went through the other pictures on your flickr stream
post #103 of 655
10/4/08 at 10:08am
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Originally Posted by starling&diesel View Post
The fabulous news is that everything is as it should be ... bijou is measuring right on schedule, we got to see the little heart in action, and we just about melted when we laid eyes on that beautiful, little profile. And the wee perfect feet! Swoon!
I remember our first ultrasound with E. It was fantastic. I'm glad that you were able to get in more quickly than you thought you'd be able to. Waiting is so hard when your all hyped up on pregnancy hormones! That profile is definitely swoon-worthy.

And that puppy. Oh my. Too, too cute.
post #104 of 655
10/4/08 at 1:29pm
Aw, what a cute baby and a cute pup!! :

I can't wait for our 19wk ultrasound. Only 6 more weeks! My the time is flying already.
post #105 of 655
10/4/08 at 1:46pm
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My the time is flying already.
:

32 weeks today.

How's quasar feeling? Quasar, how are you feeling?
post #106 of 655
10/4/08 at 3:21pm
Jen... Thanks for the kudos on our house pics. I kind of doubt it will be so showroom worthy once the little one arrives. Am I right? Or will my OCD override my postpartum exhaustion? I'm actually quite curious to find out ...

And as for you, my dear .... 32 weeks!!!

Good goddess! Where did the time go?
post #107 of 655
10/4/08 at 11:55pm
I think I'm losing the baby. I started spotting on thursday and on friday night spent the night in the emergency room where we had an ultrasound and they confirmed the heart was still beating. They said to come back if it gets worse - but that basically there was nothing they could do.

Today the bleeding is worse with clots and I have had severe cramping for hours. I don't want to go back to the ER because on Friday we spent 3+ hours in the waiting room and if there's nothing they can do I'd rather be home.

I'll call my OB first thing monday and till then hope against hope that everything will still be ok - but I'm feeling really sad. :
post #108 of 655
10/5/08 at 12:43am
thinking of you, pf.
post #109 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:23am
Pleasantlyfurious, I'm thinking of you too sweetie and hoping for the best. Take good care of yourself.
post #110 of 655
10/5/08 at 10:31am
oh! pf! You're in my thoughts...
post #111 of 655
10/5/08 at 11:28am
It's over. The baby is gone. I'm so devastated. It was horrible. Thank you for everyone's well wishes.
post #112 of 655
10/5/08 at 12:20pm
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It's over. The baby is gone. I'm so devastated. It was horrible. Thank you for everyone's well wishes.
I am sooo sorry, PF. You and DP hold one another tight. I hope to see you back here soon.

I am so saddened by this news.
post #113 of 655
10/5/08 at 12:53pm
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i'm so sorry, pf! i'm sending thoughts your way.
post #114 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:04pm
I'm so, so sorry, pf. My thoughts are very much with you.

The first trimester is just such a fragile, unknowable time.

My little bean is in a danger zone, and I'm very scared. 7 week ultrasound on Friday showed a heart rate of only 110. They want me to come in again next week to follow up, but this seems very slow since "normal" is 120-160. Going back on Tuesday hoping for the best but preparing for the worst.

Big hugs to PF and healthy vibes to everyone else....
post #115 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:12pm
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It's over. The baby is gone. I'm so devastated. It was horrible. Thank you for everyone's well wishes.
Oh no. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
post #116 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:12pm
pf, I'm very sorry.

post #117 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:26pm
pleasantlyfurious, I am so sorry. Keeping you and dp in our thoughts.

ellie, best wishes for your litttle one. I hope you hear positive news on Tuesday.
post #118 of 655
10/5/08 at 1:29pm
pleasantlyfurious ... you and your partner are in my thoughts today.
I'm sure that your heart has shattered and your soul is limping.
Gentle, healing prayers coming your way, hon.
Blessings and safe journey to the little one who has gone.
post #119 of 655
10/5/08 at 2:13pm
PF- i am so, so sorry. there just aren't words.

Ellie- you are in my thoughts, and i'm sending healthy vibes your way.
post #120 of 655
10/5/08 at 7:06pm
Oh god, pf, my heart is breaking for you. I'm so sorry. You are in all of my warmest, dearest thoughts. Keep us posted on you're faring, please.

The first trimester is such a terrifying time, I agree. Ellie, I hope on Tuesday you get the news that all is well. My thoughts are with you right now, too.
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