oh, mama, i am so sorry.
i didnt say anything before, because i was hoping your other baby would make it. but this happened to me last year. i lost baby b at 14w6d and baby a sometime the next week. so i know this is a really hard time you are having right now. i am glad you were able to have the d+c and get it physically over with. i am so sorry, mama. i hope you and your dp can support each other through your grief and please be easy with each other. of course you both need time to grieve, and that shouldn't be rushed, but i do hope you feel better soon and that you are able to join another ddc soon (if that is what you want, of course).
I am so sorry you have to go through this.