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post #1 of 11
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Yes I am still pregnant. No I have not had the baby yet.
Yes I know your call went unanswered. No we are not at the hospital.
Yes we were not at home when you called. We were out doing the things we normally do on weekends - grocery shopping, playing, errands, etc.
Yes we ignored the cell phone, and the text message. No we were not on IM or "instantly" available on email. No we didn't rush to return messages when we got home.
Yes we DARED :eyebrow: to turn off all ringers so we could get a NAP - you know that thing you keep telling us to take advantage of while we still can.

And it is completely outrageous to call every Tom, Dick and Harry that knows us to see why we are not answering the phone. We went 11 days late with DD and likely will go late with this one. We promised we'd update when something happened and we will. And MOM, what on earth does it matter if I'm in labor anyway, as long as you get a call when the baby is here - it's not like you can do anything (or would) while I was in labor anyway.

And NO I am not "picking" a day to have this baby. IF I'm still pregnant next Friday, the midwives and I (and Husband, although he only gets 1/2 a vote ) will make a decision as to what is medically best. I am not picking Tuesday just because it's convenient for you, or because so and so's birthday is that day, or because you want an odd numbered birthday. This is NOT about you.

Whew - vent over - I'm off to take a nap. With the ringer OFF. If you see an Amber Alert with my name on it tell them to go AWAY.
post #2 of 11
, I totally know how that is mama, we are going through the same thing here. Just keep trying to ignore them and get your rest.
post #3 of 11
Send out a mass email to everyone that you are napping and you'll let them know when it's showtime but in the meantime, they need to stop calling!
Great post!
post #4 of 11
Hey, LegalScrapper, could you call me when you go into labor? Just kidding!

mama. Go take that nap!
post #5 of 11
I too felt your pain. It was so hard going past my edd and getting those calls, texts, etc.
people never seem to remember that babies are supposed to pick their own birthdays.
post #6 of 11
can i c&p that on my blog?? lol! (sans the mom stuff)
post #7 of 11
Amen to that! lol
post #8 of 11
haha, there are still people I haven't contacted... and i've had my baby! I'm just lazy. I posted a few messages here and there, and word is slowly getting out... but i'm so tired and exhausted that I just don't care to call the whole world and tell them about it. Plus I don't need more visitors. I say blow the people off. hehe. They'll get mad... but who cares? Everyone from church is still asking about me. I haven't been there in 3 weeks and I only just had my baby wednesday. Didn't go today either... i've decided i'm not "recovered" enough... and don't really want to go through the hassle of taking my newborn there. It's a pain already to try nursing her at home... i can't imagine doing it in church! People will just have to get used to not seeing me for a while. lol. I'm sure they all could get used to not seeing or hearing from you.
post #9 of 11
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I sent out a mass email yesterday that baby wasn't here yet and that we were taking "everyone's wonderful suggestions to nap" by turning off the ringer

I've also started letting my 4 year old answer the phone - "nope baby brother isn't here yet" - She thinks it's fun and I get off the hook.

The latest saga is that everyone wants me to go ahead and be induced on Friday after my appt so the baby can come over the weekend. It took me awhile to figure out that it was because then EVERYONE is off work and can come visit in the hospital. Ah....NO....that's a darn good reason to push things off even further.
post #10 of 11
: Well said! Hang in there!
post #11 of 11
oh wow, can i join in your vent? im a week "late" and everyones freaking out. you're very smart to not let yourself get pressured into an induction. i keep having to educate ppl around me on the risks and why its ok for babies to be late they need to leave the pregnant women alone!!
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