, I am not sure on the ovulation spotting, but I hope its a good sign for you!
Originally Posted by binkin
Snow~Pea, I felt TOTALLY comfortable with her; we chatted for a couple hours. I can be a little awkward when talking about personal stuff, but she was so cool I had no problem. Obviously I'm not pregnant and using her as a midwife midwife yet, but I'd definitely recommend her. She even helped me to figure out herbs because I prefer not to take things in capsule form for my own strange reasons, so we sorted through what was what in her recommended supplement, and she explained the various things. I definitely plan to call her when I get my BFP finally
A couple of hours, wow. I'm so glad you felt comfortable with her and she was helpful. Aren't we lucky to have so many great midwives in our area? We will definately interview a few when the time comes, but in my head Stacia is already the front runner mainly because I have gotten to know her views pretty well here on MDC. I hope the new plan works and you get your BFP very soon!
Originally Posted by Carlin
Yep, I only saw her once and wouldn't go back. Mind you, the PCOS thing wasn't one of the main reasons. Basically I felt she totally discounted my knowledge of myself, jumped to conclusions and had a total my way or the highway attitude. She didn't seem to beleive that I knew I wasn't ovulating and implied I just wasn't charting correctly. She wanted me to go to a very christian oriented centre, learn their way of charting and do it for 3 cycles before she'd even order any blood tests. At the time I hadn't ovulated for at least 6 months.
I'd decided she wasn't a good fit for me and that I'd follow my instincts that we didn't need help yet and wait it out for a bit.
I wasn't really angry at her until a couple weeks ago, when I got an envelope addressed to "Mr. Coslin ...." from the centre she wanted me to go to, asking for donations. The only way they could have gotten my name was from her records, as I had no other contact with them. I think this is a major breech of my privacy and totally out of line, but I haven't quite decided what to do about it yet. Stupidly, I threw out the envelope, so I don't have physical proof anymore. I guess if they send another one I should keep it.
So, other ttc-ers, what would you do? Report her, call her, just in case someone accessed her records without her knowledge, just get my name taken off their list and ignore it? Any suggestions?
Meanwhile, it's 11 dpo, temps are still up and I'm just trying to keep my mind occupied with other things. 2 weeks is way too long!
I'd be pissed too, what a UAV! You really should call her out on it, but you're right, without the letter you don't really have anything to back up an accusation. You could always just ask, and if they say no then oh well. If they say yes then I would let them know how inappropriate it is for them to share your info with another organization without your permission.
Originally Posted by oneKnight
Sorry I just posted on the old thread. IF my O date is correct, I'm 15DPO today!!!! Cross your fingers ladies, I think I got AF on 15dpo last month. I do not plan to test till Saturday, tired of wasting tests and trying to break my poas addiction. and ann of loxley is certainly not helping!
Do not test, do not test, do not test, do not test, do not test...