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post #321 of 414
to Ann.

I'm so glad you're getting your progesterone checked. I think this will provide you with some answers.

: that you never have to go through this ever again.
post #322 of 414
yes, I hope this gives you answers... and I also hope you never have to go through this again!!!
post #323 of 414
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Originally Posted by sweetieberlin View Post
thanks for a nice welcome!!!


now a "I dont know what"-- last night I felt something like ovulation pain.. I had already given up hope for O'ing this month... this morning ewcm.. dh and I cant bd until tonight 1030pm... will it be too late?? the last time was 2 days ago.. could the sperm still be in there alive and swimming? did I mess this month up??

got any thoughts?

thanks!
If you have EWCM, it's possible you are still about to ovulate (some get EW-like CM during their 2ww, this is why I said it's possible..). That EWCM could have been up where you can't reach and therefore helped guide the sperm where they needed to go two days ago. Sperm can live up to five days in a woman's tubes, though that's a bit long.. a more average time is 2-3 days or less. My DD was conceived by DTD three days before O!

Definitely cover tonight. Say you ovulate today at 10am, the egg survives for around 24 hours. When you DTD, sperm enters the tubes and it takes 8 hours to mature before it can penetrate the egg. Just because you have ovulation pain doesn't mean the egg is popping out right then. I get ov pain 2-3 days before O and then the day of I get MAJOR pinching pains.

Good luck.
post #324 of 414
THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!!!!

you gave me hope!!! guess we'll be bd tonight!!

still have the O pain now.. maybe I'll finally catch one..
post #325 of 414
sweetieberlin, I agree with UberMama, you definately still have a chance if you dtd tonight. Enjoy!
post #326 of 414
ok well i got flow today. the good new is, i got her. that bad news is, i am leaving for out of town and she will be with me for the whole trip

i am getting her more reg lately... so i guess that is good?

any idea why i get her more reg when DH is gone? i miss WAY more when he is home. why might that be?
post #327 of 414
lovebug, I hate getting AF before a trip! I don't know why your cycle is more regular when dh is away. I know stress can scare af away, but you are probably more stressed when he is gone than when he is home, so I don't know .
post #328 of 414
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Originally Posted by ann_of_loxley View Post
I have an appointment with an infertility specialist (According to the GP - and that he will take great interrest in what I am going through) on Monday. Lets hope this gets things rolling and we can find some answers as to why my babies are not sticking. I personally feel its a progesterone problem.
well whatever it is I hope its easy to fix. how are you today?
post #329 of 414
lovebug. That's good though about getting more regular. Sorry about her visiting during your trip.

Maybe I will join? I'll post again with my info in a sec. DH is experiencing side effects from his anti-depressant, so us TTC hasn't really started yet. The timing just hasn't worked out. Maybe next cycle. I'm 2-3 DPO today (no chance this cycle). Next O date is around Nov 13th which is a full moon! Hopefully we'll get good timing and have a good shot at it. It'd be nice to have a BFP around Thanksgiving (though if we do, we won't tell family until we're out of first tri..).

Thanks for adding me to the header.

Name: Ali
Date: (age?) 25
Where are you at in your cycle: 3 DPO (LP is 11-12 days, no chance this cycle, so just waiting on AF around Nov 4th)
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: None
Testing: Not until around Thanksgiving, if we have good timing next cycle anyway
Thoughts:
post #330 of 414
Sigh. Hi mamas, I'm back for another round. After graduating from this thread in September, I had a m/c at 6.5 weeks. We got attached so quickly, and were so lovingly welcoming this new little one... it really is unfair. I was/am so heartbroken, especially since that was our last month TTC before we decided to wait for logistic/work reasons.

However, the first time we made love after the m/c was on CD10 (counting the first day of bleeding as CD1) and I think I think I may have ovulated on CD11. I feel mittelschmerz each and every time I pop an egg, unmistakably. I had this feeling as well as some wet/slippery CM (not totally EW, but I am attributing that to my hormones?). I normally O on CD14, like clockwork. Is it possible that I ovulated a little bit early? I would think that a m/c might make my O even a little bit later... though it was an early one. Anyway, after this situation, dh and I realized just how badly we want a new family member, regardless of the logical reasons it might be better to wait. As long as we are safe, warm and have healthy food to eat... the rest is just details. Our family and emotional well-being is more important than material things anyway.

So, wish us luck! We'll probably try one or 2 more cycles and then take a little break. Right now I'm CD16/5dpo if I actually did ovulate that day. We've made love a couple more times since then just in case!

and to all the other mamas here.
post #331 of 414
Oh Sabrina, I am so sorry. I hope you will get pg again very quickly.
post #332 of 414
Thread Starter 
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Sigh. Hi mamas, I'm back for another round. After graduating from this thread in September, I had a m/c at 6.5 weeks. We got attached so quickly, and were so lovingly welcoming this new little one... it really is unfair. I was/am so heartbroken, especially since that was our last month TTC before we decided to wait for logistic/work reasons.
post #333 of 414
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Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
Sigh. Hi mamas, I'm back for another round. After graduating from this thread in September, I had a m/c at 6.5 weeks. We got attached so quickly, and were so lovingly welcoming this new little one... it really is unfair. I was/am so heartbroken, especially since that was our last month TTC before we decided to wait for logistic/work reasons.

Anyway, after this situation, dh and I realized just how badly we want a new family member, regardless of the logical reasons it might be better to wait. As long as we are safe, warm and have healthy food to eat... the rest is just details. Our family and emotional well-being is more important than material things anyway.
i understand that feeling all too well, and I am sorry for your loss. I am glad that you felt stable enough to jump in there and catch that egg! that is fantastic and I wish you the best!
GOOD LUCK.
post #334 of 414
Ann, would you be so kind as to add 2 girl babies beside my name for my living children? Thanks!
post #335 of 414
Monday check in: At 130AM on Sunday
Name: KParker
Date: 10-26
Where are you at in your cycle: CD 5
Appointments: some massages and fun things at the SPAAAAA
Symptoms if they apply: n/a
Testing: n/a
Thoughts: I'll be gone Monday with my BRAND NEW HUSBAND OF AWESOME on our honeymoon, so I'll see you all in a week Next O day is around Nov. 5th-ish, which is right when I have another working interview so I hope that stress doesn't freak me out much.
post #336 of 414
Hello

I'm new to this forum (my english isn't all that good anymore i think, have to use a dictionary alot) - grew up bilingual in germany and don't feel at home in the german forums.

I'm 27, have a little daghter (feb.05) and i'm trying to concieve since i first got my period after breastfeeding jan/feb 07.


cycleday: 11


- Anja
post #337 of 414
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
Ann, would you be so kind as to add 2 girl babies beside my name for my living children? Thanks!
Thanks hun - I was unsure if 'blah' was a girl or boy hehe :P
post #338 of 414
Ann - Could you add my two boys and a girl, please? Thank you.

Anja - Welcome. Good luck to you.

kparker - Wow, good luck with everything coming up. If it helps, each time I've conceived, it's been during a stressful time - go figure, lol.
post #339 of 414
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Originally Posted by ann_of_loxley View Post
Thanks hun - I was unsure if 'blah' was a girl or boy hehe :P
I hadn't even realized that, I used to have dd1 and dd2 in there.
post #340 of 414
Welcome Anja, I hope your stay is short!

Congratulations kparker, have a great honeymoon!
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