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post #361 of 414
10/27/08 at 7:31pm
Monday check in:

Name: Sabrina
Date: October 27/08
Where are you at in your cycle: CD18 after m/c, possibly 7dpo?
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: Lots of fatigue. Cervix high, firm and closed (usually is after O for me).
Testing: Will probably test on Hallowe'en, which would be 11dpo if I did in fact O the 20th... may test earlier, the HPTs in my cabinet are looking awfully tempting as of, you know, 2dpo?
Thoughts: I'm feeling pretty sad these days, feeling crummy to be back in the TTC boards (much as I love you ladies!). I was at a lovely, lovely birth this morning and it just breaks my heart that my baby was robbed from me. I really hope I did O/conceive when I think I did.

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post #362 of 414
10/27/08 at 9:19pm
Blissful Maia I just want to say good luck to you, I was in your due date club and I too m/c (yesterday). It is so difficult to say goodbye to something you want so much. This for us would be the last time we were going to try till next fall (we'll see). I'm glad your trying and I'm hoping the best for you
post #363 of 414
10/27/08 at 9:32pm
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Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
Monday check in:

Name: Sabrina
Date: October 27/08
Where are you at in your cycle: CD18 after m/c, possibly 7dpo?
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: Lots of fatigue. Cervix high, firm and closed (usually is after O for me).
Testing: Will probably test on Hallowe'en, which would be 11dpo if I did in fact O the 20th... may test earlier, the HPTs in my cabinet are looking awfully tempting as of, you know, 2dpo?
Thoughts: I'm feeling pretty sad these days, feeling crummy to be back in the TTC boards (much as I love you ladies!). I was at a lovely, lovely birth this morning and it just breaks my heart that my baby was robbed from me. I really hope I did O/conceive when I think I did.


I am sorry mama. It does make you sad, and rightly so.
I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone. I don't know how you feel about that baby weather it will come back or you will eventually get a new one (hope that doesn't sound ignorant....and I hope I am understood)
but whatever helps you have strength I hope you take care of yourself and relax. (i know how tempting that pg test looks, but hey you are half way there!!!!)
post #364 of 414
10/27/08 at 10:56pm
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Originally Posted by UberMama View Post
MONDAY CHECK IN

Name: Ali
Date: 10/27
Where are you at in your cycle: CD 17 / 5 DPO
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: None
Testing: No date. Just waiting on AF.
Thoughts: None
, I hope you will have better timing next cycle. Just in time for a Thanksgiving BFP!


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Originally Posted by sunnykbird View Post
i never really think anyone reads these except me BUT

MONDAY CHECK IN

Name: Kell
Date: 10/27
Where are you at in your cycle: cd 6
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: None
Testing: wouldn't be till the middle of november...gosh that seems like an eternity away
Thoughts: I am not as "gung ho" this cycle. I don't know why, Last one i was ALL geared up and laid out my pretty panties and tempted and check cm but this one I am like "eh whatever..." i don't know why....is this a bad sign should I be alarmed? I wouldn't be sad if I got pg, I am just not like freaking. maybe since it didn't happen last cycle it sort of took the wind outta my sails.
I read them too! I am getting more lax about certain things relating to ttc too. I don't think its a bad sign. After trying for a couple of months with no bfp it was very disillusioning. Its kind of a letting go because you just can't control this. Thats how I felt at least. Its been over a year now, and I am doing accupuncture and tcm. That has helped me to be more positive, but I am definately not as excited as I was a year ago.


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Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
Monday check in:

Name: Sabrina
Date: October 27/08
Where are you at in your cycle: CD18 after m/c, possibly 7dpo?
Appointments: None
Symptoms if they apply: Lots of fatigue. Cervix high, firm and closed (usually is after O for me).
Testing: Will probably test on Hallowe'en, which would be 11dpo if I did in fact O the 20th... may test earlier, the HPTs in my cabinet are looking awfully tempting as of, you know, 2dpo?
Thoughts: I'm feeling pretty sad these days, feeling crummy to be back in the TTC boards (much as I love you ladies!). I was at a lovely, lovely birth this morning and it just breaks my heart that my baby was robbed from me. I really hope I did O/conceive when I think I did.
I am keeping my : for you Sabrina. I hope you get some of that first cycle magic!
post #365 of 414
10/27/08 at 11:29pm
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Originally Posted by sunnykbird View Post
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I am sorry mama. It does make you sad, and rightly so.
I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone. I don't know how you feel about that baby weather it will come back or you will eventually get a new one (hope that doesn't sound ignorant....and I hope I am understood)
but whatever helps you have strength I hope you take care of yourself and relax. (i know how tempting that pg test looks, but hey you are half way there!!!!)
I absolutely feel like this baby will come back, and I think that is part of the reason I feel that I need to keep TTC now, rather than waiting, so that this little one can come back to me! Thanks for the encouragement.

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I am keeping my : for you Sabrina. I hope you get some of that first cycle magic!
What is this "first cycle magic" you speak of?

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Originally Posted by crazymom03 View Post
Blissful Maia I just want to say good luck to you, I was in your due date club and I too m/c (yesterday). It is so difficult to say goodbye to something you want so much. This for us would be the last time we were going to try till next fall (we'll see). I'm glad your trying and I'm hoping the best for you
Oh, mama. I am so, so sorry to hear that you are going through this as well. I hope we can go back into the due date clubs soon.
post #366 of 414
10/27/08 at 11:37pm
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Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
What is this "first cycle magic" you speak of?
I have heard (from the experts here at MDC of course) that you are more likely to conceive right after a loss. Main stream minds may try to explain this in some scientific way, but I think it is magic ...and possibly an abundance of leftover babydust !
post #367 of 414
10/27/08 at 11:42pm
: for all of us. And to blissful_maia and crazymom. I haven't conceived yet, not even once, but I'm still terrified of m/c. Giant and hopes that you'll be pregnant again just as soon as possible.

I am pretty sure I definitely O'd today or maybe it'll be tomorrow. That OPK this afternoon was darker than any OPK I've ever peed on before, and this evening the test line was lighter again. So... we'll see. I hope this is it. I hate this limbo life.
post #368 of 414
10/28/08 at 12:21am
Well Af is due here any day now but today I had an amazing amount of creamy white discharge. Any thoughts on this ladies??

I've had a killer headache for a few days now. I wish it would go away....

BABY DUST FOR ALL
post #369 of 414
10/28/08 at 3:05am
Monday Check in:10/28
Name:Tryingforbaby
Date:Tuesday
Where are you at in your cycle 8
Appointments:none
Symptoms if they apply: AF ended 3 days ago and now I am starting to get cm.... bring it on!
Testing: not for a few weeks.... but maybe I will get some opks when I go out tomorrow
Thoughts: you can do it. you can do it. you can do it.
post #370 of 414
10/28/08 at 3:35am
Thank you, Pea! DH has a health issue that is hindering our timing, so while we decided to TTC starting in August - we have yet to have a cycle that is well timed (meaning within five days of O!). Maybe next cycle.

lala, Here is how it happens for me - if I am pg, I get tons of creamy CM from 3 DPO onwards every single day. But if I am not pg, I get creamy CM every other day and not nearly as much (amount wise). Good luck!

tryingforbaby, I like the thought you have (you can do it, you can do it..). I really believe that positive thinking can go a long way.

blissful, I agree with Pea. I swear there is evidence out there proving that we are more fertile after an m/c for whatever reason. {{HUGS}}
post #371 of 414
10/28/08 at 10:22am
blissful_maia

crazymom03

Good luck to everyone!!!
post #372 of 414
10/28/08 at 12:45pm
lalalola, what's happening today? Any new 2ww symptoms???
post #373 of 414
10/28/08 at 6:47pm
Hi ladies, so today I am dripping EWCM. The only signs of O I was going by were a high open cervix (though it could have still been open from the m/c and what I thought was O pains on the 20th. But I am going to treat this (CD19) as ovulation and dtd like mad for the next couple of days. It is going to be hard resisting POAS though, as I was planning on starting in two days (what I thought was 10dpo)!

Wish me luck, everyone! : :
post #374 of 414
10/28/08 at 7:00pm
Quote:
Originally Posted by blissful_maia View Post
Hi ladies, so today I am dripping EWCM. The only signs of O I was going by were a high open cervix (though it could have still been open from the m/c and what I thought was O pains on the 20th. But I am going to treat this (CD19) as ovulation and dtd like mad for the next couple of days. It is going to be hard resisting POAS though, as I was planning on starting in two days (what I thought was 10dpo)!

Wish me luck, everyone! : :
Have fun! :
post #375 of 414
10/28/08 at 7:55pm
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Originally Posted by Snow~Pea View Post
lalalola, what's happening today? Any new 2ww symptoms???
no new symptoms. I'm feeling emotional and feel like I look really fat and horrible in all my clothes (which is a PMS sign). And I still have a bad head ache.

I'm not sure when AF will show up cuz I've been taking B6 to extend my LP and I'm not sure if it will have just made me ovulate early or extend my LP so that my cycles are longer. Anyone have a clue????
post #376 of 414
10/28/08 at 8:27pm
So, I'm just hanging out, innocently stalking charts : and holy cow... Songbird, : : : Congrats! : : :
post #377 of 414
10/28/08 at 8:48pm
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Originally Posted by Carlin View Post
So, I'm just hanging out, innocently stalking charts : and holy cow... Songbird, : : : Congrats! : : :
I saw that too when I was lurking over in IF. OMG! Congratulations Songbird!!! :
post #378 of 414
10/28/08 at 8:55pm
songbird, I know you haven't announced it over here, but we are all ::: for you! Congrats, happy and healthy 9 months!
post #379 of 414
10/28/08 at 9:01pm
Thanks, ladies. I'm a bit cautious, yet... I'm not ready to be moved to to the graduates section. I've been waiting so long for this, I can wait another week or two, to see those doubling beta numbers and maybe a heartbeat? I'm just not convinced it's real (although the line on the hpt is UNMISTAKABLE. It's not as dark as the control line, but it's not faint.)
post #380 of 414
10/28/08 at 9:18pm
No hurry, I don't think you don't have to graduate until you are really sure.
Still, I'm just overjoyed for you. : Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!

And Snow~pea, that's a nice ovulatory looking chart you have there! It seems like something is working right for you!
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