luvmi2kids ~ Did I mention that I think the O day FF gave you is wrong? I don't think you Oed until the day after, cd27 with a CL of 97.6. It's only one day later but that will affect your likelihood of being pg and when you might get a + hpt.
It's official now. I have changed my mind and am now not hoping for an oops. I'm a bit upset right now. My dh told me last night that, after his 6-7 month deployment this spring, he'll only be home for about 2 months before he has to go somewhere else for 5 months. It's really stupid. He's being sent to a Captain's career course even though he'll have already been a Captain for 3 years and will be in the process of being promoted to Major. He's also already taken a career level course for his tenure as Captain, which is a requirement of the Marine Corps. Apparently, though, some high up idiot has decided he's got good potential for a career in the Marine Corps (duh) and that taking another career course will be advantageous for them.
The 5 month move is considered a permanent change of station so the whole family would be expected to move. If we don't (which we won't), we'll either lose our housing allowance for where we are or we'll have to pay for dh's living expenses where he'll be. That's going to put a serious strain on our finances since our housing allowance doesn't fully cover our mortgage payment as it is. Oh, and did I ever mention that he just got home from a year long deployment at the beginning of this year? He'll have only been home for about 13 months after being gone for 13 months when he deploys again.
By the time we're back together after all of that we'll both be 40. I don't want to have another baby and take care of 2 other LOs on my own for a year. I also don't want to have any more babies after 40. So, that's that.
I'd be happy and excited if an oops happened but I'm not hoping for one anymore.